I am super active and my anus rubs against itself. I am a 25 year old male and my anus was always a very special place to me. When I got HPV and warts I was 21 years old and it crushed me. I look at my anus as a woman would look at her vagina. It is my flower and the petals have been damaged. I am embarrassed at the way my anus looks today after wart surgeries and 'wear and tear'. there must be some kind of laser treatment that will heal the skin and put my anus back to what it looked like before. I am desperate for any information you good people have. I have tried putting antibacterial ointment on my anus in the morning and that usually lubricates it enough so that my anus rubs against itself without irratating the skin. I probably should have another evaluation of the hpv to check for more warts as well. I wonder if I will ever find a man who will accept me for what I am-- it is very embarassing to even talk about and I wonder if there are any other men or women with damaged flowers out there who have had compassionate sexual partners. will anyone want me?
thanks!!!
scared and hopeless
thanks!!!
scared and hopeless
You stated that you were super active and there is nothing wrong with that. The only problem is that sometimes in the heat of the moment we forget to take the necessessary precautions to ensure that we can continue to have an enjoyable sex life. When it comes to the matter of your anus you should continue to see a doctor and follow their advice for treatment of your condition. The constant use of antibacterial creams though they may give temporary relief could also lead to further and perhaps even more severe irritation. I wish you the best and please in the future protect your precious flower because you are special, GOD BLESS!
Aww, hun let me tell you this first and foremost: love is blind!
And, when I say that, what I mean is that, if someone loves you, they will not care if your "flower" is damaged or not.
And, if they are too selfish to not love you because of something like that, then they are stupid.
I understand how embarrassing this is for you though.
I too am a pretty sexually active person.
When I was in the 9th grade, I had a sort of accident where I fell straddle over a 2x4.
It caused a blood blister on the lip of my vagina, that started to swell.
It swelled up to the size of a softball, before the doctors would fully sedate me.
Anyways, I was left with this really ugly scar, and a bunch of excess skin from the blood blister.
I used to worry that I would have issues with sex, or finding a partner that would accept my vagina as it is.
But, after I got over the stress and worry and decided to just go for it, everything was okay.
I had decided that I had nothing to be ashamed of, because NOBODY is perfect.
And that is what you should think too.
Carry your self with pride, and don't worry what people think of you.
If they don't like you, they can go **** off. (;
But, as HeavenHelpMe stated, I would continue to go to the doctor for regular check-ups and such.
Continue to use your ointments, and anything else that you find that helps you.
I wish you the best of luck!
--Miranda
And, when I say that, what I mean is that, if someone loves you, they will not care if your "flower" is damaged or not.
And, if they are too selfish to not love you because of something like that, then they are stupid.
I understand how embarrassing this is for you though.
I too am a pretty sexually active person.
When I was in the 9th grade, I had a sort of accident where I fell straddle over a 2x4.
It caused a blood blister on the lip of my vagina, that started to swell.
It swelled up to the size of a softball, before the doctors would fully sedate me.
Anyways, I was left with this really ugly scar, and a bunch of excess skin from the blood blister.
I used to worry that I would have issues with sex, or finding a partner that would accept my vagina as it is.
But, after I got over the stress and worry and decided to just go for it, everything was okay.
I had decided that I had nothing to be ashamed of, because NOBODY is perfect.
And that is what you should think too.
Carry your self with pride, and don't worry what people think of you.
If they don't like you, they can go **** off. (;
But, as HeavenHelpMe stated, I would continue to go to the doctor for regular check-ups and such.
Continue to use your ointments, and anything else that you find that helps you.
I wish you the best of luck!
--Miranda
Witch hazel salve, tea tree oil soap, vitamin E, Vaseline with cocobutter and wheat grass cream. Relax on sex for a while and use those products
I'm 32, and found my ex-boyfriend after many years apart. We were amazing together and he was an amazing man to me. After so many years apart the love was still there and we tried to conceive, as a result it didn't happen. And I was left with what I believe to be genial warts, no doctors have been able to diagnose it for sure. I have been to 5 different doctors. Now the warts have spread and I don't know how to deal with this mentally. I'm all alone in this, have had to continue to have no luck with men. This disease has altered my mental state, and I'm not wanted with or without this disease. Suicidal tendencies have become an everyday battle, it's only a matter of time before I do it.
Please call a hotline right away
Like do it right now and don't hesitate before you make a big mistake
1-800-273-8255 National suicide hotline