I am very worried! :( about a month ago my boyfriend and I was in our underwear in bed, we took off our underwear then he layed over me and he fingered me as I gave him a hand job he cummed onto my stomach and over my hands he then touched his penis I don't think he had a lot of his hands but it might of had a little bit on his fingers then he continued to finger me. As he went to pull away his cum stringed off him from my stomach and it might of landed on my vagina. I am really worried, my belly looks abit bigger and I keep getting sharp pains in my belly and a little bit of abdomenal cramps, I have a lot of discharge recently more than I normally have, it's abit itchy and sore down there and the discharge smells a bit. My period is irregular so I don't know when my period is due but my last period started the 12th of August so should be near now. I'm too scared to get a pregnancy test and I don't want to tell a family member I'm only 15! I was stupid and I regret it I will never do it till I'm ready, please some one just tell me if I am pregnant? Well a high risk or low because I'm freeking out! :( thanks
I'm sorry to say this but you are cuz if he had Sperm on his finger and he fingered u when he had it then its most likely that you are but go check on the doctors
But it wasn't that much he like maybe not even a drop
If it was only a drop then ur screwed cuz even a little but can maybe get u pregnant but pay a doctor visit if ur insecure or u can buy a pregnancy test and check
Are you just saying this to scare me? Because I am really worried.
Look I'm not trying to scare you but if ur not sure then buy a pregnancy test
Hi Leyla, yes he is right only a small amount can get you pregnant but other factors would also need to be right like you would of needed to be around 4 days from your fertile point to actually get pregnant, if your having a discharge that has an odour and you say your vagina is red and irritated then I would say you could have a bv infection.
How long was it before or after your last period that the incident happened?
Your pains and cramps you are feeling could be because your next period is about to start and that could also be why your tummy looks more bloated than normal, is the discharge your having the same as you normally get in texture or different?
Yes my vagina is very itchy red and sore, can the doctors tell if the bacterial invention was from sexual related reasons? And its abit different it's like pure white lump comes out and leaves a yellow stain in my undies when I next go to the toilet and check
And it's was about 1-2 weeks after my period stopped
Hi, it could also be caused by thrush or yeast infection.
Have a read on these 2 wikipedia pages on both infections, neither would necessarily be caused by any kind of sexual contact so don't worry.
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Candidal_vulvovaginitis
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bacterial_vaginosis
Thank you so much, So do you think there is a high risk to being pregnant or a low risk
I'm sorry but I can't really say, when there has been sexual activity and semen has come in contact with the vagina there is always a 50/50 chance I just hope that your not.
I would suggest that if your planning on doing it again you think about using some form of contraception either the pill, shot or implant.
Okay thank you so much for your help
Your welcome and I hope you get you discharge problem sorted :-)
Thank you I appreciate it