Hi Reshu! IF you are still on the pill you are totally fine, if you aren't I would say that you are still fine! As the condom broke, but he hadn't ejaculated! IF he had, that would be a different story! As I've said to other people, have him pull out - right before ejaculation - to stop any oops's! Have him ejaculate into the condom away from your body!
Regarding the 2nd concern, it sounds like a mild infection, possibly a yeast infection! Most women think that we have to have smelly discharge, thick discharge, irritation etc. This isn't always the case! Since you have been under stress, I hazzard a guess that it has brought this on! So try a 3 - 5 day yeast infection pack - like Monistat! Do NOT have sex in that time period - as he can transfer it back to you! Use pills AND suppositories it works better that way! Your lack of sexual desire i would put with your stress! We - women - are thinking beings! IF we are upset, stressed, tired etc. the 1st thing to go is our sex drive! IF you have had an upsetting day, why the heck would you want to have sex? I don't get makeup sex either - some of my friends think it's great, i don't i STILL can't stand my husband after even making up!!!!! LOL So give yourself a break on that OK? If you can put the lack of arousel at the same time as the discharge then that is what is going on! We are fine tuned animals that need everything in order for us to relax and let arousal take over. BUT if your husband is trying to use foreplay and your thinking about bills etc. your brain WILL over ride any other sensation! So lets get the vaginal discharge fixed first OK? Cut out sugars and any yeast items. Let me know how you make out! Good luck honey!
Regarding the 2nd concern, it sounds like a mild infection, possibly a yeast infection! Most women think that we have to have smelly discharge, thick discharge, irritation etc. This isn't always the case! Since you have been under stress, I hazzard a guess that it has brought this on! So try a 3 - 5 day yeast infection pack - like Monistat! Do NOT have sex in that time period - as he can transfer it back to you! Use pills AND suppositories it works better that way! Your lack of sexual desire i would put with your stress! We - women - are thinking beings! IF we are upset, stressed, tired etc. the 1st thing to go is our sex drive! IF you have had an upsetting day, why the heck would you want to have sex? I don't get makeup sex either - some of my friends think it's great, i don't i STILL can't stand my husband after even making up!!!!! LOL So give yourself a break on that OK? If you can put the lack of arousel at the same time as the discharge then that is what is going on! We are fine tuned animals that need everything in order for us to relax and let arousal take over. BUT if your husband is trying to use foreplay and your thinking about bills etc. your brain WILL over ride any other sensation! So lets get the vaginal discharge fixed first OK? Cut out sugars and any yeast items. Let me know how you make out! Good luck honey!