My boyfriend is bipolar and breaks up with me every 3 months

After how long you guys get back together? In my casa is like one to two months :(

Hang in there. If he isnt in treatment ger him in it! I have been doagnosed for 13 years which was 13 years into my current marriage of 28 years. If you amd your partner truly love one another you will be ok.....if not then do your partner a favor and leave NOW.A lot of people just cant handle the ups and downs of the illness. Best of luck to you.

My bf does this but he says he is depressed

I MUST reply to this...I'm 50, my boyfriend is 55, he lost his father to suicide when he was 18. We've been "together" almost 6 years. He broke up with me too many times to count (I think it's around 7) I always take him back...oftentimes being the first to make contact after the breakup. He just broke up with me again (WTF) ...major highs and lows. I will not contact him again, but I not-so-secretly hope he does indeed contact me again. These posts are helpful in knowing I'm not alone. Thank you all for your honesty in a very difficult subject matter.

I had same story, it seems it is what it is. And for me i always had the feeling oneday he will leave for good Anytime so better stop where you can. The uncertainity will never leave you alone. It drains your energy
Moreover, you will suffer with the indecisiveness and plans /promises unmet and never completed, v close at times, v distant at More times. Its only those few good days to live happily rest are rollercoaster. I spent days and nights stressed that i feel myself drained, unloved and unimportant its just two personalities you would be dealing with and tough words to handle at times when he decides to be left alone.
I think if you love him better leave him for his routine life as it what helps keeps his mood stable and doing his things the way he wants and feels happy with.