It really bothered me when I found my boyfriend jacking off in the shower, I've caught him three different times in the shower and two times in bed and he even jacks off while we are in bed together and my back is turned! It becoming to much for me to find him all over the house doing this to himself. It's mainly upsetting because we have sex nearly 1-3 times daily. I found through his email accounts that he had about 17 dating websites that he put himself onto. I deleted most of his accounts because it was so hurtful. I do find him looking at porn online when ever he can sneak the chance. Plus about six months into our relationship he put up an add for sex on craigslist. Which i found traces of but he deleted the account before I could fully look at it on the craigslist site. He wants sex 24-7, and too me it seems like he wants sex more often when I am on my period. I hate that, because its not like i'm interested in sex when I am on my period. He doesn't like to really please me unless i ask. I believe that I should be masturbating as often as he is because I never orgasm unless i assist myself. My boyfriend gets off 1-3 times a day seven days a week by either oral, intercourse or hand jobs. What do you think all of this could mean? I am really frustrated. I wish he would stop jacking off all the time. He even takes two long showers a day i mean like 30-40 mins. I know hes probably jacking off in the shower. What would you do if you were in my shoes help?
You should talk to him about how it makes you feel. I did read online that guys in their 20s can jack off up to 7 times a day or more. My boyfriend even admitted that he jacks off 2-3 times a day even though we have lots of sex. He told me that he just feels like he needs to. I guess guys are just made that way.
As for your guy, you probably won't be able to keep him from jacking off as much as he does, but I would make it clear about the porn and sex ad lists. That's going way too far. If he values your relationship, he will keep himself in check, especially if it makes you feel bad about it.
It took me a while to get used to how much my boyfriends masturbates, but I finally came to terms with it when I realized that at least he's doing just that and not cheating on me.
thank you. Your post was very helpful.
Hello, Firstly tell me please how old are you and your bf?
Nice. What a champ!!!