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Hi, I told my boyfriend that I had herpes, and he rejected me. I hoped that he would appreciate my honesty, and that we shared something more than sexual attraction. I am very disappointed and I will think twice next time before I tell someone about it.

Hi, don’t have second thoughts about telling a partner about herpes. You did the right thing telling him, and it’s his loss that he rejected you. You could still have a safe sex with condoms, but it doesn’t matter now. However, try to understand him too. Maybe he’s afraid of getting herpes, and he doesn’t want to risk. It’s not fair that you have herpes, but that’s exactly why you should know how important it is to tell your boyfriend about it. He has the right to know, and he should have a choice. So many people suffer form sexually transmitted diseases, and we should all try to decrease that number.
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Hi



Being honest is something which only few people are gifted with.

I think you are one such person. Please dont loose that wonderful gift.

There are so many people in the world who are ready to accept who you are.

So dont think about what has happened.

Life is short so please be happy.
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Hi, the good thing is that you told him about herpes. It's his fault that he is gone. If he was understandable enough you could've talked about it, and find a solutions, like condoms.
But put your self in a position of been lied to?! He had a right to know that. It's his health in question as well as yours!

Hope that you will tell your next partner the trough.
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