Please- no juding. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years, and having unprotected sex for a year. I wouldn't mind having a child with him, but recently circumstances came up. I need a new car, Im almost finished college, and my parents recently had financial issues (pay cut and debt). I am 8 weeks pregnant, and knew for about 3 weeks now. At first I knew I wanted an abortion. It was MY choice. Then, I went to the gyno for the 1st time to have everything checked out. They handed me pre-natals and baby books. When my friends found out they all go "awww! Someone I can spoil". etc...My boyfriend is scared but very excited to be father. My thought is that I am only 21, still not responsible enough to raise a child, I need to buy a car, Im working 2 jobs, I'm afraid to tell my family ( they;d be disappointed and aren't the biggest fan of my boyfriend). I don't want to hurt my boyfriend because he's the greatest thing to happen to me. I just can't even remember to take my pre-natals, let alone take care of a child. I know abortion is NOT a form of birth control. I believe once is a mistake, and as long as I take precautions I will be fine until I am ready. Any advice? from anyone who has had an abortion? I would like a child, but not for a couple of years. I just dont want to regret that my first child, is not technically my first child.
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