I've never had this problem but I liked the idea of being topless, above all not hurt by a bra but also with my boobs there for the world to see. I wouldn't have done this younger but I started when I was 16 not asking anyone's permission. For some time my parents didn't dare to ask me to put something on or simply to discuss the matter and when they finally did I thought it was too late and told them so. I suppose I have turned into what you might call exhibitionst. I don't think it's a big problem. It's a lot of fun and freedom and pleasure.
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I used to go topless around the house in my early teens and my parents didn't have a problem with it until my brother reached 13 and started getting erections when he was around me. It didn't bother me, and my mom wasn't too bothered either, but my dad wasn't happy. For a while when my parents were out he would masturbate in front of me but I figured it was just something boys do so it wasn't a big deal. Nothing is a problem unless you allow it to be.
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My sister used to go topless, I preferred to stay clothed. Neither was a problem with our mum. My sister didn't like clothes in general (she didn't like her breasts very much either but she preferred to show them rather than wear a tshirt), I wanted to hide my breasts which I didn't like either though for a different reason (she has asymetrical breasts one being very small, I have both breasts of a very small size). Once she had a boyfriend he had her wear something because he was kind of jealous of other people seeing her breasts.
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As a mother I would say it is a question of modesty and depends on the development of the bust. I have 3 daugthers (from 2 different men) which I was obliged to raise on my own. The eldest has only a very small bust with small light coloured areolas and inverted nipples and I never saw a reason to force her into clothes not only at home but also in public for certain activities (on the beach or even for a picnic or a bicycle tour in the forest for example) whereas the other two started to develop breasts when 11 and I had to ask them to wear bras and tops when 12 for obvious reasons. They did not understand immediately because their elder sister was allowed to stay as they used to be as a children but a few months later still their breasts had developed sufficiently for them to want to wear clothes by themselves.
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My wife has always been comfortable without a top, and has a "who cares if they see, they're just breasts and everyone has them." Our oldest daughter didn't bother with a top growing up and hated when she developed enough to need a top when her mom covered. Our son didn't care, uncovered breasts were the norm in and around our home. When out youngest started developing, she was so happy to finally have breasts that she wanted everyone to know. Our girls are now in their late and mid 20's and are still casual about covering their breasts. They have grown and matured with a healthy acceptance of their bodies, which is not too common.
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My mother told me she wished she'd asked me from the beginning on to cover so that there'd've been no problems when my boobs grew. It"s so weird. For her it was just like for you apparently the nipple the important thing. At the beginning my boobs grew but it was really when the nipple came out that she freaked out. And in a way that's also the main difference with men, isn't it, and they're allowed to go topless. I don't understand why. Had I grown large breasts I would have understood, because that's the sexy part I think. But I am only an A-cup, I reached that size when I was 15 only but my mother wanted me to be "modest" as you call it too because of the nipple. They're long but not even that big and they grow hard only when I'm cold, not like my sister's who's had a "hard nipple problem" when adolescent. So I believe my nipples have been very decent and I don't see the problem.
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Hi. Maybe I shouldnt write here because my situation is a little bit different bu tnot that much. For me it wasnt about being topless at home but topless on the nearby beach. We lived 30 kms from the sea and with friends and family went often to the beach. My breasts had started to grow when I was 10 but just before the summer so there was really nothing yet and I stayed topless as I used to as a child. The year after I had considerably developed and my mother told me I should cover my breasts from this year on. I didn't really understand why but I did as she told me. One day we went to the beach with my cousins, one was my age and the other was 16. Both stayed topless and that day I took off my bikini top too. When my mother learned that I was punished for it. I still dont understand why she reacted that way.
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I know the problem. Our daughter wanted to start topless at home when she turned 14. We didn't want to argue so we let her have it her way but it was strange to see and we couldn't understand why she wanted to do this. Her breasts had already developed and she had no problem with tender breasts.
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You sometimes get the urge. I wanted to do topless also once I'd started to grow breasts. My parents didn't understand and my big sisters didn't either. What's more they both got the beautiful breasts large and with rose colored areolas and small nipples, whereas I have small breasts with darker areolas with some hairs around them and large nipples, but I wanted the world to see the whole of it. I didn't particularly like my breasts but I felt that way they would get the attention that they didn't get (or deserve) otherwise. I was topless where other girls where dressed and that made me sexy, no matter what my breasts looked like. And I did also get turned on in the process. My parents let me go topless at home when there was no one else but us and in the changing rooms I stayed naked as long as possible and from the age of 15 or so on I always looked for occasions to get topless when I was among friends, changing clothes when they were present and so on.
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We have a somewhat similar problem,our 15 year old daughter is a bedwetter and by her own choice,wears cloth diapers and rubberpants[plasticpants] to bed every night! Most every night after supper.she goes to her room,puts on the diapers and rubberpants and a tee shirt and thinks nothing of her two brothers,as well as dad and i,seeing her in them! She has had both girl and guy friends come over to visit or hang out,and she never covers up the diapers and rubberpants!! The husband and i just dont know ho she can do this!
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I wouldn't know for the diapers lol that seems to me to be off topic here but if you're real I feel sorry for your daughter. As for going topless it's Something I can relate to and also the fact that it is connected with actually not liking ones own titties. I was uneasy with them when they started to grow and never got used to them. I found that everything about them was too large and also their shape was weird they were very firm and full and for a long time I had no fold at all below them. On the other hand because they were so firm I didn't need a bra once my mother asked if I wanted to have one and I asked her what she thought and she said it was certainly up to me and since I wasn't particularly keen on wearing one she said that in that case I should wait until my breasts started tp sag a little. I couldn"t tell how it really happened but at some point I started to stay topless in the changing rooms and then I started to go topless at home and also to change in front of friends in a casual way. Ther ewas a time where my areola got swollen which lasted for a year or so and without a bra you could see it through my clothes and again I didn't like the shape and I wanted all the more other people to see it. After that period when my areola was flat again I had grown a large nipple which was visible Under the clothes and I grew a few hairs around the areola which I wanted everyone to see and which I talked about a lot in order to be able to show. I calmed down when I was in my 20ies and started also to wear a bra.
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I too allow my son (17) and my daughter (18) and my wife to stay nude at home. I too stay naked at home. Sometime I did sex with my wife in front of my children and told them how it works. We all live a happy life.
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my wife go's topless she's 65 and looks great nothing wrong with that just love her and she will be ok
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I hope you have continued to allow your daughter to remain topless, letting her decide when to cover. Far too many girls have body issues, and I would think your daughter is not one of them.
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