hi,i have a girlfriend who stays 10 km away from me.we've been together for 3 months now and we love each other very much.the problem is she says things that hurt me and when she sees that i'hurt and talking to her about my feelings she cries till she sees that i' fine.a few weeks ago we almost broke up over the fone and she was crying and the 2nd time she said its over because this is too much for her and she hate to cry for a men.the things that i don't like about her is that she showed me a picture of her ex and told me they are friends now.she is 17 and i'm 25.when i asked about her intentions about us she said she do not know because she gets tired of a guy and when i challenge that she cry.i will be the secand guy to sleep with her.can you help people i'm confused,should i put too much of my heart on her or what?
well the problem is that you guys are 8 yrs apart ur a mature young man you grew up ur not a child no more but she is 17 and i can give f about the age difference but she still a child she hasnt matured yet she still trynna figure out what she want in life. now u r probably trying to find a funny, smart, mature ,independent,drama-free woman that you are trying to spend the rest of ur life with well that alots to put on a little girl. i know she might be funny and intelligent, but she hasnt matured all the way mentally, she might still be depending on her parents for her expenses, and i think she want someone around her age, not that im calling you old but on the same status as her, because you status is way higher.
so i think you guys should break up for the greater good, because from what ur telling in ths post is you guys are going crazy and you guys are at ur breaking point, and i think a relationship can get saved here but not a sexual relationship like a friendship.
good luck to the both of you bye. :)
thank you very much for your input sir.well i have also been thinking of breaking up with her but i just have to find the right moment because she is still at school and this might destroy her the way i see her personality(very emotional person and has a sensitive heart too.but thanks again you have made a huge difference to me.
IM A GIRL, but your welcome
hi mem,thank you very much and i promise to take a short on him.i would love to know which country can he be found and do i have to meet him?i'm in south africa.