Me and my girlfriend are in our teens. We were having regular intercourse for a month, once a week, then we haven't had sex for a month. Then we started again not too long ago. But that is not the problem The problem is she isn't interested in sex, usually she will lie there and will wait till im finished. It could be possible she could have a low sex drive as she can suffer from depression. We have only tried missionary and in spooning and me penetrating from behind. Also me using my fingers just hurts her and she is disgusted by the idea of me giving her oral. I dont feel proud saying this but my penis isn't very big. My only advantage was kissing her neck as that got her in the mood but it stopped feeling good. Also she hates saliva so here is my questions.
What can i do to try and pleasure her
Is there any possible way to maybe heighten her sex drive
Or is there a way for her neck to get that feeling again.
Thank you in advance
so what I think is that you basically need to talk to her. Perhaps notabout how you've realised that she isnt interested in having sex, but try to get to know her more, particularly what drives her - see whether she has any fantasies, fetishes anything she finds very sexy. And try to follow her 'guidance' if that doesn't help, then wait - be really, really nice to her, but not in a sexual way for a few weeks, and then try to get sexually tender. Kiss her neck, nibble her ear, kiss behind her ears, slowly undress her while carrying on to kiss her. I hope this will help - speaking from experience, it helped my relationship.
i understand where you are coming from but she isnt that type of girl. If i tried any of that she would shoo me away. My only best bet was to kiss her neck but she is immune. Is there a way for her not to be immune? thanks for the help