I am a female and I am hoping that some of guys can help me out here. My husband has an umbilical hernia which he will soon be having surgery on. He has had this hernia for a while now, and has gotten to a point where his belly button now sticks out and hurts him at times. The question I have is very embarrassing to me, so please bear with me. When we got together 16 years ago, his size when erect was about 7 ½ to 8, and was feasible when non erect. As the hernia issue has gotten worse over the past couple of years, his penis has shrunk considerably to a point where he barely seems to make 4 -41/2 when erect, and barely sticks out when non erect. It has gotten to the point where I barely notice the feeling and he orgasms very quickly, however his testicles are huge. IS this normal. I have read many of you say that shrinkage occurred post surgery, but has this ever happened to any of you PRE-surgery. I need advise, please. I love him, but I feel like im getting the short end of the stick, literally