My husband has been doing meth. He gets to the point when he does it he thinks I am hiding things from him, that I have people here and i talk to them when I am really talking to him. have sex with the imaginary people etc.. He is convinced that I am lying to him but he doesnt know what I am lying about.
When I bring it up when he is sober he just says "oh I'm a prick" or I was tweaking. Whatever. I dont know what to do when he does this. I walk on egg shells and really can't say or do anything. Which causes even more paranoia with him. If I say he can't do it anymore, well, he will. I cannot make him not do drugs. He has to quit on his own. So my question is what the F**** do I do.
Hi At a loss,
Pack up and leave. Until he completes, not starts, but completes treatment stay away. Like it or not, by you being there you are enabling him.
What's more important to him? You or the drugs? He has to make the choice for help.
Hopefully there are no children involved here.
Good luck.