My husband threatens to hit me and has anger problems...

He is a weak person. Cant take his mistakes. Call for help if he hits to teach him a good lesson. Dont take it lightly. It can be life threatening.

not true, my husband first threatened to hit me two years after we got married. He never followed through, but aside from being agitated at times while we dated he never was a bully.

Blaming the victim is cruel. Its what these women are running away from. Nobody wants to hurt or be in a relationship. Everyone wants a loving relationship, something you are not giving right now.

Do not talk to his mom, that will make it worse. He will find out, feel like you went above him, and he will lose it. If he is treating you this way now, time will only make it worse. You need to leave him. Trust me, I've been through this. Mothers will protect theirs sons, and side with them even if they are wrong. You don't want to end up pregnant again, and then have him attack you because he feels like you are getting more attention than him. Its scary, I know, but you cannot change him. Your best bet for you and your child, is to flee the abuse

I hope you found a way out. I am trying to escape my similar situation, I'm pregnant, and have a two year old son. My husband threatens me often, to knock my teeth out, to choke me, to kill me, goes on and on. I'm afraid, I'm heartbroken, and I have hypermeises gavardiam. I've been in the E.R. twice in 2 days due to throwing up blood, and all I hear is how I'm a selfish B and everything is about me. This is abuse. It is not OK, and I am leaving him. My son has started cursing because of his foul mouth. His own mom stepped in front of him to keep him from hurting me, but then told me to just give him the day and it'll be fine. She is on his side telling me I just need to know when to be quiet. So, the only one who can help us, is ourselves. We must make the choice to go to DHS, and seek any help they can provide for mothers being abused.

In my case, he lied to me, a lot, and I found out after we were married