I married my husband when I was 25 and he was 30. I was aware before hand that he had some issues with impotence but due to my own ignorance I thought we could address it and get it fixed. He is a type 1 diabetic who takes good care of himself and is healthy in every other way. He has seen specialists, tried all the drugs out there, and have tried sex toys, porn and penis rings. I was willing to try anything. Nothing worked, not once, and he will NOT entertain the idea of implants. I was a virgin when we got married almost 10 years ago and still consider myself a virgin today. I spent the first several years blaming myself and crying myself to sleep after being turned down over and over again. What little sexual contact we used to have ended a long time ago, we hardly kiss on the mouth anymore, and never more than a small peck. He has only touched me about once a year in the last 3 years. I love him and dont believe in cheating, but I dont know how much more I can take. Help me. Please!
Sally,
You need to speak to a marriage counselor immediately.
For your own peace of mind, and the future of your marriage, you need to have professional input.
If your husband won't go with you, go alone. But start now.
Only a professional can tell you if ther is any possibility of alternatives and options.
Good luck.
You need to speak to a marriage counselor immediately.
For your own peace of mind, and the future of your marriage, you need to have professional input.
If your husband won't go with you, go alone. But start now.
Only a professional can tell you if ther is any possibility of alternatives and options.
Good luck.