hi i never had sex before and really want to but is very very very scard i have been finger before and i bleed a little what could i do to to make me relax and my partner is not big at all im just scard but i really want to get it done and over with what should i do :$
First of all, don't think "I want to get it over and done with." That's not how you should think about sex, let alone your first time. When you are truly ready (in your mind, not body), you will relax easily. Yes, it hurts the first time, but once you're comfortable with yourself and your partner, it will become easier. Take things slowly and don't try yo rush yourself. And I can't stress this enough, don't let your partner rush you either.
Hope this helps.
Hope this helps.
well tonight is going to be the night and i m ready and no my partner is not rushing me i been dealing with him for 5yrs and he never pressure me into nothing all we do is have oral sex and i think its time to go deeper im just scard of pain period no matter what type of pain it is so im going to see how this going im scard and happy at the same time