Nipples sore/tender possibly from stress or pregnant??;

Heyy, I'm 14. &I'm going through this too. But it was with my bestfriend. We had sex four weeks ago, today. And we only used protection for like 10minutes..when it lasted like an hour..and he didn't get off..as far as I know. Normally he pulls out but like a month before this happened he told me he wanted to get me pregnant..just being annoying because he didn't like the guy I dated. I was supposed to start my period three days ago. It completely normal for me to start late but this time I'm scred. My nipples hurt like c**p.! &I'm not cramping. &++The day after I remembered that at that time I was ovulating(I think that's how it's spelled). But I just need some advise.? Some help.? Idk...[[but honestly the worst part about this whole thing..His Grandma Walked In On Us.!xD]]..it was HORRIBLE.!!

Hello there.  I am an adult woman, and I have some advice for you.  First, if you fell that you are pregnant, I encourage you to tell your parents or guardian.  Having a baby is a big responsibility, and you need all of the support you can get. 

 

If that is not an option for you, I encourage you to see if there is a Planned Parenthood in your local area.  I know in my state, they provide confidential pregnancy and STD tests, and for many, this service is free.  I was sexually active at 15, so I know all too well what you are going through.  I'm in Oregon, and I utilized their services for pregnancy and STD screenings, that they were 100% about confidentiality.  If they call your house, they will not say who they are, unless you give them permission.  Each state might be different, so I'm not sure if the policies are the same where you live.  If you call them and ask, they will tell you their specific policies.  In my state, they will not notify authorities or parents UNLESS abuse or violence is suspected. 

 

If you are pregnant, take some time to explore the options that are right for you.  I had a friend who had an abortion in high school, and it scarred her psychologically.  I had another friend who was pregnant, and decided to keep her baby.  Her life was hard, but she was glad she chose that option.  I had another friend who chose "open adoption", and she has an arrangement that allows her to see the child a few times a year, but the child is legally someone else's child.  This allowed her to pursue her long-term goals (such as college, etc.), but did not have the mental anguish of not knowing her child.

 

Regardless, PLEASE-PLEASE-PLEASE utilize safe sex methods.  If you want to sleep with a guy, INSIST that he wear a condom, or no hanky-panky for him.  STD's are a scary thing, and many of them are life-long conditions, and can cause some things, like infertility.  Some are even life-threatening.  I don't know where I heard it, but I seem to recall that 1 in 4 people has an STD.  These are staggering numbers.       

 

It is important that you find out if you are pregnant.  Don't put it off.  If you are pregnant and decide to deliver the baby, it is important to obtain prenatal care.  Prenatal care is crucial because it can reduce instances of birth defects, and can detect if there are any problems with the baby's development.  Many times, vitamin supplements are needed to increase our natural body chemistry (such as folic acid, etc.).

 

I hope this message finds you well.  Just know that if you are pregnant, there are many options, and take your time to explore them all.  Discuss with your family as to which option is appropriate for you. 

my advice to all yound ladies who think that sex at a young age is fun it's not. i lost my innocence at 19 to a man old enough to be my father not because i wanted to but because i was forced to. i couldnt report it because of who he was and was too ashamed because i felt i put myself in that position. for months i had discharge and ordor and a whole mess of things and was affraid to go to the doc but was convinced to do so. i had an infection and was precribed medication at prices that would blow your minds. i had gonorrhea for one whole year i might not be able to have children. consider yourselves lucky but please be careful, sex isn't all that they make it out to be

Just throwing this out there: I lost it to my boyfriend this summer. I was 20 years old at the time. It happened somewhat accidentally, completely unplanned and we didn't use protection. I waited that long and trust me I had a lot of chances to do it with guys who said they loved me before but I waited until I knew I was ready and able to comprehend what was happening. He got me plan B in the morning and I got on birth control soon after. I am completely in love with him, and like most guys je hates condoms. BUT. if there is ever any chance my bc might be messed up or, like now, I'm not on it, we use a condom. No question. Do not let a guy pressure you into unprotected sex. It's YOUR BODY!!! tell him to peace if he won't listen and does something like take the condom off. If it does accidentally happen unprotected, get plan B ASAP. Which, honestly, is why you should at least wait until 18 anyway, so you can get it w.o a parent hahah spare yourself the awkward.

All you people need Jesus!!! Sex is only intended for Married People!!!

if there was no dna transmitted from his to u then u are mostly likely not pragnant its just from the stress of thinking u are and u need to see a doctor about a pragnanty test and std testing to tbe safe . even if it was 10 sec there still he could have came in u and u not feel it

I am so sorry to hear that!!! I couldnt imagine. I have a 4 year old and a 5 year old and they are my world.  when my sister became prego, her bf parents tried to talk her into an abortion, and I thank GOD that she didnt do it.  But if the baby was going to be living a life that would have made it difficult to make it through.... it might atleast cross your mind.  What a mother would do for her child, especially a child in pain..... I hope you come to peace with yourself and enjoy every second with your babies!!! Blessings!!!!

hey i have been going thru some changes i took a prego test bout a month ago it was negative but i cant loose weight and my nipples have changed colors and my boobs are hurting and getting bigger do tou think im prego cause idk....some one help me...

i seen someone on here post something about her and her boyfriend never using protection but he always pulls out...i am 19 yrs old and 8 months pregnant me and my husband never use protection either he always pulled out. and look im about to have a baby so yes u can still get pregnant trust me....;-)

umm wait hell no im going thru the same thing but im 16 nd me nd my bf have sex all the time... 2 sec or even 10 it dnt matter cum is cum and if u wer ovulateing then ya its posible.. but wat im trying to say is if he had pree cum on his penis then she might have been pregnate but well never knw

Wow hmmm well mi mom went thru the same thing wit mi youngest brother u might be idk

not eevry young mom ends up on welfare! im sorry you had to go through that and i totaly agree with you that just sticking it in you can get p regnant. i disagree that all teen moms who end up pregnant end up on welfare! im 22 years old i had my first son when i was 18 and at the age of 21 i was pregnant with twins . I still went to collage to become a hairstylist and graduated with honors.  my husband and i are still together  where a team!  we are not on welfare! we ahve no help! we do it on our own!  im proud to look around me and know that me and my husband have worked hard on providing our children with the life they deserve!:-D

when i was 12 i was raped by two grown men and now im 18 and i have a 7 month old son and i think about that day every day of my life some ppl dont get the chance to remain virgins.. i think about what if i woulda got pregnant by one of then.. i didnt even know thier names. its made me scared of every man are i should be cuz alot of guys are pricks just tryin to get some and no its not an excuse for me cuz i wouldnt give back my son for nothin and my baby daddy got me pregnant on purpose and then left me when i was pregnant and i know it may sound wrong but im now with his brother and hes gnna adopt my son so hes his. i may have made alot of bad choices but im responsible for my actions. it wass hard to do it all by myself yes but it was well worth it. cuz when i see that smile dimples n all i forget all my troubles and i dont let the hard times define me i refuse to be a victim.. so hunny even if you are you should be happy everything happens for a reason. god will never give you more then you can handle. and yes if you cant take care of it or you dont want it then yes give it up for a better life but dont do something your gna regret later.. everyone makes mistakes its how you handle it is what makes you.. think about everything you do even if its a fight with a friend think about it.. every decision you make will affect you later in life. so try to take the path most others are scared to take alone....... good luck

I was 13 and 2 days when I was raped. Having sex after meant nothing. You really should be so judgmental. I have a fiancée, family, Carter, and great life. If anything I learned early and it has paid off in the end.

hey u feel weird coz u thiink some thing is going wrong in u.its just a fear in you and nothing else. u dont undergo the process of periods wen u r pregnant.and niples are the tender parts of the human body and u need not worry about them wen u touch themm u generally feel popped and nothing much. take care and leave the fear