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I myself am 19 and i lost my virginity 2 weeks before my 14th birthday.. so technically i was 13.. my fiance and I have been together almost 5 years now. however i didn't lose my virginity to him... I've had sex with over 12 people and over half of them have been since my fiance and i started dating. I regret 90% of them. I regret SOOO many things i did when i was your age. i started smoking at 14, smoking weed, drinking and taking pills between 13 and 15. and i got the WORST reputation at my school. i lost most of my friends. and it's only a gift from god that i haven't gotten pregnant yet. but i DO use protection and am always careful. i want to add that it's not just pregnancy, std's, and stress that come along with sex. when you have sex with someone....(especially if you get off) your brain produces chemicals or something that emotionally attaches you to that person.. even if you had NO feelings whatsoever for that person before... you will now. TRUST me on this... boys don't get that feeling.. that's why girls always want to cuddle afterwards and guys want to be alone. so as someone who DID have sex early in life and regrets it.. take my advice.. even if you have already lost your virginity all is not lost. it's better to tell future possible b/f's that you've only had sex with 1 person rather than 5. wait till your AT LEAST 16 or 17. it might not seem like long and it might seem like forever.. but trust me with every year you gain more wisdom. and my nipples are sore too that's why i looked at this post anyway... i could be pregnant but i took a test and it was negative... not that i had "unprotected" sex.. but things happen. EVEN if you are on birth control AND use a condom.. you can STILL get pregnant.. my niece is living proof of that. so PLEASE be careful. ;-)
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the love of my life is the product of young teens having sex... they used a condom and still got pregnant. and even though it was tough on his mom i am so thankful she had him because if she didnt i dont know where i would be today without him. everything happens for a reason. i didnt have sex until i was 19 but only because i was scared it would hurt and scared that i would go to hell or something. but it is every girls choice. when it isnt a choice is when it becomes a problem. my advice to young teens having sex just make sure you wait until you are with this person for a while before you do it because most guys just want to have sex and girls just want the intimacy and neither of those reasons are reason enough.
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Im sorry but to the ppl that think its cool at the age of 15 or so to have sex, ITS NOT RIGHT!?!
im also 16 and i do like it but ive only done it once because my BF wanted me to.
when i did it it was for me and him not to be cool. also if your a nobody and wanna be "cool" its called a hobby or something..
girls can do what ever but have sex for being cool. go cut hair and get a degree. dont waste time to have sex. might sound lame but you have your whole life to grow up. girls and guys need to chill out.
i know a 13 yr old that had sex and ended up with AIDS just because she thought it was cool to do. she was waring a condom and still got it.
if you do have sex plz think its not to be cool or anything just to do it for you and your BF or other way around.
always make sure ur partner has or had no STDs or anything.
plz no need to spred.
if they do have a STD or somthing its easy to fix. DOCTOR>
so to end it up. plz think first and plz get a condom first too. unless your trying for a kid.
and always get tested. both of you.
any comments, questions or stories please ask me at
Bye bye
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im also 16 and i do like it but ive only done it once because my BF wanted me to.
when i did it it was for me and him not to be cool. also if your a nobody and wanna be "cool" its called a hobby or something..
girls can do what ever but have sex for being cool. go cut hair and get a degree. dont waste time to have sex. might sound lame but you have your whole life to grow up. girls and guys need to chill out.
i know a 13 yr old that had sex and ended up with AIDS just because she thought it was cool to do. she was waring a condom and still got it.
if you do have sex plz think its not to be cool or anything just to do it for you and your BF or other way around.
always make sure ur partner has or had no STDs or anything.
plz no need to spred.
if they do have a STD or somthing its easy to fix. DOCTOR>
so to end it up. plz think first and plz get a condom first too. unless your trying for a kid.
and always get tested. both of you.
any comments, questions or stories please ask me at
Bye bye
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ok so im 15 i had sex an it felt like the condom broke but im not sure an now my nipples hurt idk if im prgnant or if they are still growing idk but its been 3 weeks since then an they hve been hurtin fer 2 weeks :-( dude i dont wana be a mom at fricken 15 er 16 i hve my life ahead of me thats just to much pressureeee
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Its horrible that kids are saying that times are different and its not like tha old days.... this is crazy. YES times are very different... but isnt tha word NO still tha same and have tha same meaning? if youre going to have sex, take responanility. you do it cause ya want.... not because times are different.. && dont tell me i dont know how you guys feel. I am 19 years old. I am just adult enough to own up to my actions. As should you guys... Srioualy times are different, but its tha morals thats really changing. We just dont have enough respect. Thats whats wrong with tha world... people being cowards. Please, kids, I watched my best friend miscarry her child. IT WAS HORRIBLE... she didnt do drugs didnt drink she was clean as could be... it just wasnt meant for her to be a mom yet, the pain is still with her... now, could you wake up and know that because you want a quick get off you could harm an innocent child?! this is tha 21st century ladies, have more respect! :]]
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Nobody is ready to have a sexual relationship at age 15. Their mind isn't developed enough to come up with a rational or logical system to deal with anything that goes with it. (stress, pregnancy, etc.) Do I believe it is a bad thing? No. However, I do believe that it would be within everyone's best interest to wait as long as they can, or at least wait until you know for certain that you are going to spend the rest of your life with that person, and that if you were to get pregnant, you could take care of the child. Most people do not even understand what real love is, especially when your mind isn't developed fully enough to even understand the emotion to its fullest capacity. This is why it can have such a devastating effect on younger people. Just like some animals, the human brain is hardwired to mate for life. When a person participates in sexual activities at such a young age, with a person that they are more than likely not going to stay with, it causes several problems, sometimes even leading to promiscuous activities of trying to fill a "void", or even depression. Why do you think everyone is so "clingy" to their "first"? It's all because of our wiring. If your mind isn't developed enough to take it in, and be able to handle the responsibilities, then you should abstain. Plain as that. The human mind isn't fully developed until age 25, and for some people, as you might have figured out by reading almost all of the previous posts, my point is proven.
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I just want to say you two girls are idiots. I'm only nineteen, and what the hell? Drugs weren't invented yesterday, and either was sex. Both have been around for thousands of years, and saying that older people don't understand is just another example of how TRULY immature you are.
Seriously? You're mature enough to have sex, but you're not mature enough to know how to use protection, to know how to handle your own problems, and to know the consequences of your decision. I mean, really, you're posting on a forum on whether or not you're pregnant. If you're truly that worried, it's because you have this thing called a subconscious, and it's making you anxious because deep in your hearts you know that you shouldn't be having sex because you can't handle the consequences.
And I'm no ultra-religious Christian, here. Sure, people are going to have sex, and when I was in high school I ran around with the stoners and the potheads, and every single kid that lived that lifestyle, and I mean every single one absolutely no exceptions either has a baby, is in jail, or has a serious drug addiction. The only reason I escaped the vicious cycle is because I got in some trouble myself, and detached myself from the people who were causing these problems.
You two are extremely foolish, and that's not passing judgment; it's simple fact, and calling it anything but that, is once again, an insight to your immaturity, and a pathetic attempt to justify your actions.
I'm going to go shoot myself now, because this generation has gone to hell.
Seriously? You're mature enough to have sex, but you're not mature enough to know how to use protection, to know how to handle your own problems, and to know the consequences of your decision. I mean, really, you're posting on a forum on whether or not you're pregnant. If you're truly that worried, it's because you have this thing called a subconscious, and it's making you anxious because deep in your hearts you know that you shouldn't be having sex because you can't handle the consequences.
And I'm no ultra-religious Christian, here. Sure, people are going to have sex, and when I was in high school I ran around with the stoners and the potheads, and every single kid that lived that lifestyle, and I mean every single one absolutely no exceptions either has a baby, is in jail, or has a serious drug addiction. The only reason I escaped the vicious cycle is because I got in some trouble myself, and detached myself from the people who were causing these problems.
You two are extremely foolish, and that's not passing judgment; it's simple fact, and calling it anything but that, is once again, an insight to your immaturity, and a pathetic attempt to justify your actions.
I'm going to go shoot myself now, because this generation has gone to hell.
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short & sweet. you may think you are ready for sex at 15, but you aren't. my sister is 13 this year -as old as i was the first time a guy entered me. I didn't know wtf was going on until i felt the pain and screamed for him to get off. he was suppose to be a nice guy who liked me and just wanted to date. i cringe when i see kids do the stuff i did at their age. i feel ashamed at the stuff i did -not just sex related. i also had stable relationships going 2 years or so at a time. only with one guy did i feel comfortable enough to do the sex relationship with. i was 16 going on 17 and he was a year older. i fell pregnant 17 approaching 18 and he dumped my ass quicker than i could say 'i'm pregnant' i will never regret having my son -going on 3, but i will regret -for the rest of my life, giving a guy that part of me at such a young age. i look at teens now and cringe at the thought of them having sex at this stage. it's wrong just like drugs and booze. laws are made to help you. think about it
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I started having sex at 14 but i was in a stable relationship and still am. I knew that i wanted to spend the rest of my life with this guy and I am still with him today. I dont judge because society is much different than what it use to be and those who judge dont really matter. Everybodies different, Everybodies not meant to be a 30 yr old virgin....
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I don't like how all of you arguing about when it is or isn't okay to have sex.
Of course you're going to defend yourself for having sex at a young age because you don't think it is wrong. Kids today have no respect for anyone much less themselves. Have a little bit of self control. Anyway the topic is on sore nipples, so let's get back to that.
Of course you're going to defend yourself for having sex at a young age because you don't think it is wrong. Kids today have no respect for anyone much less themselves. Have a little bit of self control. Anyway the topic is on sore nipples, so let's get back to that.
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i just think this funy because its about nipples............nothing else.........dumb......as
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You guy's are very young and unexperienced. Don't you know if you don't use a condom (whether it's for 10secs or he pulls out) you can still get pregnant! duh!! There is something called "pre-cum" if you will and that can get you pregnant. You should use protection to protect yourself, PERIOD!!!!!
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