My neck is pretty weird; I have to sort of pull it out down and I have the small of adam's apples that can vaguely be seen from the front but not from behind... I used to be INCREDIBLY self-conscious of it when I started high school (10 years ago) but now I really couldn't care less. And my girlfriend hates protuberant adam's apples so it's a winner really! The only thing I am worried about is that this is the reason why I struggle to sing high chest register... If it is then there is no way I can ever sing high short of some weird experimental throat surgery...
Anyways, I hope you're not still feeling down about it because there really is nowt wrong with not having a Cristiano Ronaldo turkey neck ;)
Okay I'm a female and I actually opened this link because I Google wheather or not men with med to large protruding Adam's apples were gay because it seems to me most of them have very protruding adams' apples. I was surprised to hear your comment I was just being inquisitive actually but I think you should just be so grateful that you are a young intelligent man. Know who you are and don't be moved by anything else God bless. You get to determine how others feel about and see you. Identity crisis don't Define you. Trust that it is a phase that will sooner dissipate as you lend less and less time to it.