I lost my virginity about a month ago to my boyfriend. He and I are in long distance relationship, so we do not see each other very often. We only had sex about 8 times since I lost my virginity to him within the last month, and I still do not feel any pleasure except for when he performs oral sex on me. We have tried different positions, but I still feel a little uncomfortable in some of the different positions that we've tested out. Also, his penis does not slide in easy at this point. What does this mean? Am I still too tight? Will it take a couple of more times for me to feel some sensation in my vagina? How long will it take for me to feel pleasure from penetration ?
If he cannot enter easily, it may be a lubrication problem. Try using a lubricant, it makes it more comfortable. Many girls get more pleasure from clitoral stimulation rather than penetration. My suggestion would be to make sure you are relaxed and have plenty of foreplay