Hi, here's the story. My first time was last year with my husband, and we've had sex several times till now. i didnt bleed at all till now, and just had little pain the first time, is it normal?? Is it possible i've not lost mine yet? and is there a way to understand when i've lost it? and is there a way to find out when was the first time i've had sex???
Thanks to anyone who takes the time to read and help me.
Thanks to anyone who takes the time to read and help me.
Generally its said that you loose your virginity once he enteres you for the first time. So in that thought yes youve lost it. However it could just be the position, being to rough, or if he was using his hands before you started to engage he could have simply scratched a bit and that can be painful.
I went though a period when sex hurt a LOT and even a little blood and i was seen my the doctor and said to add a little jelly/lube because i just wasnt getting worked up enough. Hope this helps a little.
I went though a period when sex hurt a LOT and even a little blood and i was seen my the doctor and said to add a little jelly/lube because i just wasnt getting worked up enough. Hope this helps a little.
the main cause of bleeding after having sex for the first time is the tearing of the hymen. however, some girls lose their virginity and do not bleed at all. why? this is because either their hymen was not very "thick" at the time of first penetration or it is possible that their hymen was torn before they ever had sex. you can tear your hymen doing anything active. for example, playing sports, riding a bike, falling down, or inserting a tampon. i shouldn't think that if you have been having sex for a year now that you would still have a hymen, so maybe your bleeding is caused from rough sex or a tear in the sensitive tissue inside your vagina. but, yes, your virginity is in fact gone if that's what you're asking. no worries, though, you're married! c: