Well first of all I HATE using condoms because I can't ever find one that fits. Your normal gas station size is too thin (girth) and magnums are a just a tad too big. Anyways I have never had any problems with getting erections but ONE time with this girl I used one of my roommates condoms, I can't even remember what kind it was, but I struggled to get it on and roll it down because it was not wide enough, for the first 20 minutes I was doing fine but after that when she got on top I went completely limp, and COULD NOT for jack **** get it back up. This scared the c**p out of me because I can usually go solid and fully erect for literally 2-3 hours without Climaxing once, but little breaks when switching positions :-) The sad thing is I bragged to her about my performance and then I completely embarrassed myself. lol. Do you think it was the condom? Was it too tight?
No, I don't think it was the condom.
Since you've asked, I think that it was the fact that she was on top. This frequently will surprise a passive man and he'll lose it, sometimes.
Yes, a condom that is smaller than you are used to, might have an impact...
also, switching brands to a different thickness can also do it. Some men have a hard time reaching orgasm in a condom if not a regular user.
The fact that you bragged only made you worry about it, and that can take a heavy toll, too...
I think you should go buy a dozen of your favorite brand, wait a week or two, and you'll find that you're right back on top again.
Since you've asked, I think that it was the fact that she was on top. This frequently will surprise a passive man and he'll lose it, sometimes.
Yes, a condom that is smaller than you are used to, might have an impact...
also, switching brands to a different thickness can also do it. Some men have a hard time reaching orgasm in a condom if not a regular user.
The fact that you bragged only made you worry about it, and that can take a heavy toll, too...
I think you should go buy a dozen of your favorite brand, wait a week or two, and you'll find that you're right back on top again.
yeah, I agree with captain kirk.
Just avoid durex performance and read the label. Some have a substance (can't remember its name) that makes your penis lose its sensitivity and delays ejaculation, like durex performance. I always buy the ultra thins.
Just avoid durex performance and read the label. Some have a substance (can't remember its name) that makes your penis lose its sensitivity and delays ejaculation, like durex performance. I always buy the ultra thins.
Could you be referring to "benzocane"? This is a topical anethetic that helps to deaden nerve endings temporarily.
"Lydocane" is also similar, and can be found in some soothing gargle that will help deaden a raw, painful throat.
[I'm not sure that you can find either over the counter in the USA, but I know that one has been sold in a tube marketed as "StayLonger" or "LongerLasting" and was sold in the family planning/sexuality display in drug stores and pharmacies over the last dozen or so years.
The problem with these types of products is that once applied to the penis, the product will rub off on the woman and make her go numb also.
Only when applied to the penis, and then wrapped in a condom, does the product stay separate. I'm NOT a fan of this type of product, just explaining.]
"Lydocane" is also similar, and can be found in some soothing gargle that will help deaden a raw, painful throat.
[I'm not sure that you can find either over the counter in the USA, but I know that one has been sold in a tube marketed as "StayLonger" or "LongerLasting" and was sold in the family planning/sexuality display in drug stores and pharmacies over the last dozen or so years.
The problem with these types of products is that once applied to the penis, the product will rub off on the woman and make her go numb also.
Only when applied to the penis, and then wrapped in a condom, does the product stay separate. I'm NOT a fan of this type of product, just explaining.]
yes Kirk, thats what i was talking about. i`m from romania and here Durex condoms are very popular, and i have a lot of friends that use durex performance (containing those substances) and dont even know it.
i dont really know other brands of condoms (good brands, like trojan i guess) and i may be going a bit offtopic, but if you could buy durex i think you`ll be pleased. go with the thin ones they never miss.
i dont really know other brands of condoms (good brands, like trojan i guess) and i may be going a bit offtopic, but if you could buy durex i think you`ll be pleased. go with the thin ones they never miss.
Actually, now that I think about it, I'm pretty sure Durex was the type that I bought consistently. I'm pretty sure the "model" or brand name was "lifestyles" and it seemed to be an orange colored box with a picture of a happy couple on it.
But that was just what I used, many years ago. It's been at least a dozen years since I was in the market for them.
We'll take your recommendation! :-D
And, yes, Trojan may be the leading brand. They certainly are established and well known.
But that was just what I used, many years ago. It's been at least a dozen years since I was in the market for them.
We'll take your recommendation! :-D
And, yes, Trojan may be the leading brand. They certainly are established and well known.