hello. im 16 and me and my girlfriend have been going out for a good time now: seems like where a perfect couple im uncircumsized and i am a virgin..shes not. i really want to have oral sex but i dont know how to tell her or how to even start i so embarrased because my penis only goes 4.5 inches erect,this makes me feel so bad i think im depressed :'( . i think she'll think im going out with her for the wrong reason. i really like this girll but i dont know how shes going to react if i ask her because her previos BF was circumsized and im not maybe she'll be discussted. i would like to get circumsized but with out my parents or family knowing about it but dont know how. im really scared of surgerys though. i really dont know wat to do i hate being uncircumsized so much because i heard girls dont like uncircumsized penis. please can some one help me out any help at all would be apriciated
plese can some one help me out any advise would be helpfull.
You won't know unless you ask. Your right, some girls are put off by an uncircumsized penis, but if gf is mature and open, she just might be down with it.
The first thing you need to do is talk to her. Explain that you never were circumsized, that is not your fault. Watch her reaction, you will be able to tell right away.
If she freaks and "EWWWS" all over the place, so be it. She may accept it and want to move on with your relationship. You just don't know. Just come straight out with it, ummm, i am not circumsized, period.
Just keep yourself squeaky clean down there. You know stuff gets trapped under the forskin of an uncircumsized penis, keep it clean.
4.5 inches of penis is not all that bad. Your not done growing yet either. 5 to 6 inches is average, so your really not to far behind.
What would be the wrong reason why you are going out with her? It is obviously not for sex!! If that were the case it would have been tried a long time ago.
Don't freak out over this. You can get the surgery without your parents consent. It is done on an out patient basis at the hospital. But i think you should talk to your dad about it. Is he circumsized? Is it your religious background that prevents this?
If you are that depressed over this, i think you can look into getting it fixed. This is your future and if it's upsetting you this much at this age it really shouldn't. So, talk to your dad and suggest getting this fixed. I don't know if insurance covers a circumsizion, they look at it like it's a vanity issue not a medical reason.
The first thing you need to do is talk to her. Explain that you never were circumsized, that is not your fault. Watch her reaction, you will be able to tell right away.
If she freaks and "EWWWS" all over the place, so be it. She may accept it and want to move on with your relationship. You just don't know. Just come straight out with it, ummm, i am not circumsized, period.
Just keep yourself squeaky clean down there. You know stuff gets trapped under the forskin of an uncircumsized penis, keep it clean.
4.5 inches of penis is not all that bad. Your not done growing yet either. 5 to 6 inches is average, so your really not to far behind.
What would be the wrong reason why you are going out with her? It is obviously not for sex!! If that were the case it would have been tried a long time ago.
Don't freak out over this. You can get the surgery without your parents consent. It is done on an out patient basis at the hospital. But i think you should talk to your dad about it. Is he circumsized? Is it your religious background that prevents this?
If you are that depressed over this, i think you can look into getting it fixed. This is your future and if it's upsetting you this much at this age it really shouldn't. So, talk to your dad and suggest getting this fixed. I don't know if insurance covers a circumsizion, they look at it like it's a vanity issue not a medical reason.
thanks il try see if it works. my dad isnt like regular dads doesnt pay attentinon to his sons i really dont have a good relationship with him i. im mad at him alot of the times. hes not circumsized i think. but um so if were to do the circumsizion would it hurt? would be in the hospital for more then a day?
It is usually a very quick procedure and done on an out patient basis. As with any surgery, there is always risk for complications, such as excessive bleeding and infection.
Other risks include, severe bruising, poor cosmetic result or a change in sensation.
The forskin is pulled forwards over the glands with a pair of forcepts, the forskin is then snipped away.
You really should discuss this with a close adult. And you really need to make sure that this what you feel that you need to do.
There are a few other medical problems that could arise from adult circumsizion, that is why you need to consult a Specialist so he can explain everything that could happen afterwards.
Like i asked you before, is it your culture or religious beliefs that didn't allow you to be circumsized as a baby? If this is your culture, a women would understand, especially if she lives in it. She would understand your beliefs, as they would be hers as well.
I think that the more i think about it, you should probably wait until your a little older, but this has obviously been on your mind for some time.
Other risks include, severe bruising, poor cosmetic result or a change in sensation.
The forskin is pulled forwards over the glands with a pair of forcepts, the forskin is then snipped away.
You really should discuss this with a close adult. And you really need to make sure that this what you feel that you need to do.
There are a few other medical problems that could arise from adult circumsizion, that is why you need to consult a Specialist so he can explain everything that could happen afterwards.
Like i asked you before, is it your culture or religious beliefs that didn't allow you to be circumsized as a baby? If this is your culture, a women would understand, especially if she lives in it. She would understand your beliefs, as they would be hers as well.
I think that the more i think about it, you should probably wait until your a little older, but this has obviously been on your mind for some time.
thanks it kind of is a culture thing i recently told her and she said she didnt care..whew! thanks alot i dont think i want to get circumsized anymore. thanks again :-)
See, all you had to do was ask, and never assume the worse :-D
My boyfriend was uncircumcised and I loved it. If she doesn't know your uncircumsied yet you should bring it up and see what she thinks. I loved my boyfriends penis because we were both virgins and I had never seen a penis before I guess that's why I loved it so much and had no problem with it. Most girls I know hate uncircumsized penises idk why tho. Don't be discouraged most people have small penises when their uncircumsized. My advice is to bring it up and see how she reacts if she doesn't like the idea then break up with her because it should be about that anyway she should love you no matter what your penis looks like :)
If you didn't get circumcised shortly after birth, don't do it now unless you are converting to Judaism. If she cares for you, she will accept that no matter what.
As for 4.5", well, you had better be amazing with your tongue. The plus side is that it will be a piece of cake to get her to do anal. She may even be the one to initiate it.