Im 25 yrs old n recently got married. when my husband fingered my vagina, it pained a lot. we still could not have sex as im scared of the pain. n feel guilty of it. Is it due to any infection? I do not have any itching or soreness otherwise, only vaginal discharge ( very little). I m recently off with my periods. Please suggest do i need to see a gynecologist? Is there something i need to worry about? Please HELP!! :-(
Hi! The most important thing you and your husband need to do is to go slowly and make sure that you are relaxed and in the mood to have him insert his finger into your vagina. If you are not lubricated then penetration could be painful, especially if your husband is forcing it. You’ll find more information here https://www.steadyhealth.com/Vaginal_Pain_cuased_by_Fingering_and_Intercourse_t91201.html