bambi, it's me again. yes, the plan b kid.
Everything went alright last time with my girl, she got her period a few days later. But a new problem arose today. We fooled around, and obviously had sex today with condoms, a few rounds, each with a new condom (no rips in each one) We changed condoms even if I had the slightest feeling of cum/precum, to add, we also tried sanitizing my penis LOL with sanitzer (we're just teens, we thought it'd help) also our hands every time. At one point, the last condom we used, I felt uncomfrotable with the condom, took it out and wasn't too sure if I precame, I slipped it back on right after I sanitized my penis again, put it on and had sex. We're just kinda paranoid that what if when I took it out the condom went inside out (more than sure I put it back the same way it was put on) as in, some liquid what was INSIDE somehow transferred outside due to the slipping off/on. It's no very likely, but I'd like to hear your input cuz we have no idea whether to wait for something but scared, but also terrified to use plan b again, which is def not likely, I'd just like som reassurance.
Thanks bambi
Everything went alright last time with my girl, she got her period a few days later. But a new problem arose today. We fooled around, and obviously had sex today with condoms, a few rounds, each with a new condom (no rips in each one) We changed condoms even if I had the slightest feeling of cum/precum, to add, we also tried sanitizing my penis LOL with sanitzer (we're just teens, we thought it'd help) also our hands every time. At one point, the last condom we used, I felt uncomfrotable with the condom, took it out and wasn't too sure if I precame, I slipped it back on right after I sanitized my penis again, put it on and had sex. We're just kinda paranoid that what if when I took it out the condom went inside out (more than sure I put it back the same way it was put on) as in, some liquid what was INSIDE somehow transferred outside due to the slipping off/on. It's no very likely, but I'd like to hear your input cuz we have no idea whether to wait for something but scared, but also terrified to use plan b again, which is def not likely, I'd just like som reassurance.
Thanks bambi
SANITIZING YOUR PENIS?!!!!! o.O Well that's one for the books!!! I would stop doing that - as it kills good bacteria that you need to ward of infections and can cause SEVERE chaffing!
As long as you used a condom and came outside the body there is NO chance she could be pregnant! Just always ejaculate outside the vagina into the condom! And you are safe! you have to remember something here, the vagina is a tube - right?! So the reason why your penis and condoms are phalic shaped is so they can go into the vagina perfectly - with nothing around them, and then when mating time comes the ejaculate is pushed through the cervix! IF it wasn't shaped and fitted like this then it would be virutally impossible to get pregnant! So even IF a condom slips off when you are pulling out, that phalic shape is still there and still fitting inside the vaginas shape! so the only time to worry is if the sperm in the condom, breaks through - as in a tear in a condom - or when removing the penis the condom slips off and spills it's contents into the vaginal cavity! OTHER than that there is NO reason to worry! Condoms - when used correctly - are 97 - 99% effective! when used with the pull out method of ejaculting into the condom they are virutally 100% effective! The ONLY 100% way of NOT being pregnant is NOT having sex! That is the ONLY way of TOTALY reassurence!
But when you use your brain and the correct methods you can get as close to 100% as humanly possible! and another thing is to know your girlfriends ovulation time and NOT have sex in that week! - It is usually 14 days after the 1st day of her period - so IF she is 28 days! IF she is 31 days you would add on 3 days so she would be ovulating 17 days after the 1st day of her period! this will virtually eradicate any chance! Also ask her to jot down any changes she ntoices - white stringy discharge, pain in one side, perhaps some spotting etc - these are signs of ovulation! Then she will know that NO WAY is there going to be sex that week!
So BREATHE and relax! And STOP the sanitizer - it's for GERMS NOT SPERMS!! ;-)
As long as you used a condom and came outside the body there is NO chance she could be pregnant! Just always ejaculate outside the vagina into the condom! And you are safe! you have to remember something here, the vagina is a tube - right?! So the reason why your penis and condoms are phalic shaped is so they can go into the vagina perfectly - with nothing around them, and then when mating time comes the ejaculate is pushed through the cervix! IF it wasn't shaped and fitted like this then it would be virutally impossible to get pregnant! So even IF a condom slips off when you are pulling out, that phalic shape is still there and still fitting inside the vaginas shape! so the only time to worry is if the sperm in the condom, breaks through - as in a tear in a condom - or when removing the penis the condom slips off and spills it's contents into the vaginal cavity! OTHER than that there is NO reason to worry! Condoms - when used correctly - are 97 - 99% effective! when used with the pull out method of ejaculting into the condom they are virutally 100% effective! The ONLY 100% way of NOT being pregnant is NOT having sex! That is the ONLY way of TOTALY reassurence!
But when you use your brain and the correct methods you can get as close to 100% as humanly possible! and another thing is to know your girlfriends ovulation time and NOT have sex in that week! - It is usually 14 days after the 1st day of her period - so IF she is 28 days! IF she is 31 days you would add on 3 days so she would be ovulating 17 days after the 1st day of her period! this will virtually eradicate any chance! Also ask her to jot down any changes she ntoices - white stringy discharge, pain in one side, perhaps some spotting etc - these are signs of ovulation! Then she will know that NO WAY is there going to be sex that week!
So BREATHE and relax! And STOP the sanitizer - it's for GERMS NOT SPERMS!! ;-)
LOL YEAH, it was random, but we just kinda wanted to be safe and all haha.
but hey, but let's say I precame in the condom (right before this round of sex, I urinated) and then when I adjusted the condom, like I took it off and put it back on, it somehow went inside out but I fixed it before I put it on so that I was wearing it the right way. we were just worried some precum touched the outside layer. What do you think? Plan B or just wait it out?
You're a life saver by the way LOL
but hey, but let's say I precame in the condom (right before this round of sex, I urinated) and then when I adjusted the condom, like I took it off and put it back on, it somehow went inside out but I fixed it before I put it on so that I was wearing it the right way. we were just worried some precum touched the outside layer. What do you think? Plan B or just wait it out?
You're a life saver by the way LOL
IF you use PLan B again I will find you and hunt you down!!!!!! o.O XD
You keep saying "lets say" Well how about I do this "Lets say that you had 1 sperm from precum on your penis, then you put a condom on, the sperm stuck on the condom, it was turned inside out, then readjusted, then tried again, then the sperm had to make it to an egg, after going through the vaginal lining, the cervical jelly and then the MASSIVE cavern of the uterus and find an egg IF there is one - in fallopian tube and then get through the outer shell of the egg!" THAT is what you are dealing with here! So relax, and DONT reuse a condom, once it's done - throw it out! Make sure everything is correct before having sex! so NO Plan B and no more 'Sterilizing!" XD
You keep saying "lets say" Well how about I do this "Lets say that you had 1 sperm from precum on your penis, then you put a condom on, the sperm stuck on the condom, it was turned inside out, then readjusted, then tried again, then the sperm had to make it to an egg, after going through the vaginal lining, the cervical jelly and then the MASSIVE cavern of the uterus and find an egg IF there is one - in fallopian tube and then get through the outer shell of the egg!" THAT is what you are dealing with here! So relax, and DONT reuse a condom, once it's done - throw it out! Make sure everything is correct before having sex! so NO Plan B and no more 'Sterilizing!" XD
You have been the most helpful in this entire drama situation. You've basically helped us realize that we're kind of stupid LOL Thanks bambi, you are my number one go to guy/girl in this topic!
Do you REALLY think a person with the moniker bambi is a boy?!!!! LOL ;-) XD
Anytime I can help you realize how stupid you are, I'm available!!!! ;-) ;-) ;-) XD XD XD Just ribbing you honey! You are NOT alone with not knowing much about sex! Which boggles my mind in this day and age! I think the more that is out there the less we truly know!
Since being on here, my kids are SO sick and tired of me bringing up ALL the sex talk!!! ;-) XD o.O they are like "YES MOM WE GET IT!!!! ENOUGH ALREADY!!!!" XD XD i mean it's so bad I will start talking about STI's in the middle of dinner!!! o.O IF either of my boys end up teenage dads - or have accidents - I will kick their buts!!!! I've even had my son add on condoms to our grocery bill!!!!!! My friends are mortified, the way I see it - I better not be a hypocrite when I teach safe sex on here, but yet my boys just sway in the wind at home! Actually it was funny i said to me son "IF you need condoms, just add it on to our groceries and don't say ANYTHING to me if you bought them or not OK?!" So he came home, handed me back my debit card, I said "Thanks Lovey!" He replied "NO!!! THANK YOU!!!!!!" o.O XD XD XD XD
what I find funny about all these questions from young people - like yourself - is that 30 years ago my mother actually told me I could get pregnant by a toilet seat! Which used to FREAK me out everytime I went to the toilet - I think this is why I HATE public toilets XD And that this type of misinformation is NOW back in FULL force! So now I just need to get with the times and start answering quesitons that SOUND silly, but it's just kids that are misinformed by other kids! So don't worry about askin away OK?
Anytime I can help you realize how stupid you are, I'm available!!!! ;-) ;-) ;-) XD XD XD Just ribbing you honey! You are NOT alone with not knowing much about sex! Which boggles my mind in this day and age! I think the more that is out there the less we truly know!
Since being on here, my kids are SO sick and tired of me bringing up ALL the sex talk!!! ;-) XD o.O they are like "YES MOM WE GET IT!!!! ENOUGH ALREADY!!!!" XD XD i mean it's so bad I will start talking about STI's in the middle of dinner!!! o.O IF either of my boys end up teenage dads - or have accidents - I will kick their buts!!!! I've even had my son add on condoms to our grocery bill!!!!!! My friends are mortified, the way I see it - I better not be a hypocrite when I teach safe sex on here, but yet my boys just sway in the wind at home! Actually it was funny i said to me son "IF you need condoms, just add it on to our groceries and don't say ANYTHING to me if you bought them or not OK?!" So he came home, handed me back my debit card, I said "Thanks Lovey!" He replied "NO!!! THANK YOU!!!!!!" o.O XD XD XD XD
what I find funny about all these questions from young people - like yourself - is that 30 years ago my mother actually told me I could get pregnant by a toilet seat! Which used to FREAK me out everytime I went to the toilet - I think this is why I HATE public toilets XD And that this type of misinformation is NOW back in FULL force! So now I just need to get with the times and start answering quesitons that SOUND silly, but it's just kids that are misinformed by other kids! So don't worry about askin away OK?