Ok, so me and my girlfriend have had sex 4-5 times. But neither of us can get anywhere close to orgasming or ejaculating while doing it. We can achieve pleasure quite easily by ourselves through masturbation. But its really hard for either of us to orgasm through oral sex, we can. But its much more difficult. My biggest concern is that we can't even get close to an orgasm through sex.
We've been together for over a year and we have just started in the recent months. The passion is there it seems. The only thing we can think of is if we are masturbating too much that we are only use to our own touch. Its starting to bother me a little because I want to be able to give her that feeling as she would like for me to be able to as well.
I just turned 18, and she is 17. If anyone can give me any help, information or advice I would really appreciate it.
We've been together for over a year and we have just started in the recent months. The passion is there it seems. The only thing we can think of is if we are masturbating too much that we are only use to our own touch. Its starting to bother me a little because I want to be able to give her that feeling as she would like for me to be able to as well.
I just turned 18, and she is 17. If anyone can give me any help, information or advice I would really appreciate it.
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Well it could be more than one thing.
- Only 14% of girls are able to orgasm from sexual intercourse, that doesn't mean that you aren't "big enough" to give her an orgasm, she just might not be capable of having one during intercourse. Try using a vibrator during sex. If she's or you're not into the whole vibrator thing, just rub her clitoris during intercourse instead. The vibrator is just a more intense feeling. It all depends how sensitive she is.
- It also depends on the type of position you are having sex in so don't just limit yourselves to the missionary position (her laying on her back & you on top).
- It could possibly be that you guys are masterbating too much. Depending on how much you have sex with eachother, the next time you guys have sex, make sure you have not masterbated atleast a week before you do it next.
Hope I helped!
- Only 14% of girls are able to orgasm from sexual intercourse, that doesn't mean that you aren't "big enough" to give her an orgasm, she just might not be capable of having one during intercourse. Try using a vibrator during sex. If she's or you're not into the whole vibrator thing, just rub her clitoris during intercourse instead. The vibrator is just a more intense feeling. It all depends how sensitive she is.
- It also depends on the type of position you are having sex in so don't just limit yourselves to the missionary position (her laying on her back & you on top).
- It could possibly be that you guys are masterbating too much. Depending on how much you have sex with eachother, the next time you guys have sex, make sure you have not masterbated atleast a week before you do it next.
Hope I helped!
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