hi i have a? 4 the females that read this my girlfrind wants to use a very big strap on on me but she wants to use just enough lube to penatrate me and let nature takes it course she said it willmake its own lube is that a good idea?
definitely not. if you are a male, or even if you are a bi or lesbian female, who is considering having anal sex with a strapon, then you shoud definitely use A LOT of lube. The anal cavity does not produce lubrication on its own like the vagina does, and therefore will NOT make its own lube. If you are considering anal sex, then make sure to be relaxed, well stimulated, and extremely turned on, as long as use a lot of lube. DO NOT use Vaseline. This is a petroleum based product that will make the toy stick to the anal cavity rather than gently and smoothly glide such as with a water based lube will allow.