I have had an abortion March 24. Im seventeen and i was forced by my parents mentally. I regret it so much. please do not judge me. my period has not come on yet and it has been five weeks, i have been having unprotected sex but no syptoms of pregnancy. i took a pregnancy test and its negative.
whats wong with me? could i be pregnant again? i have a doctor's appointment may 6th
whats wong with me? could i be pregnant again? i have a doctor's appointment may 6th
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I will NEVER judge anyone for having an abortion. BUT that said, I have to judge you about having unprotected sex again!!! Not only can you get pregnant, but I am sure you know of all the terrible diseases that are out there right now. Not to mention the huge increase in Ghonorea and Syphillis! Obviously honey, there is a LOT of issues with you. I think you really want to be pregnant, but for what cost? You have to take care of you!!! And only you for the time being, you have been through a trauma, and I use that word as you didn't want the abortion. So in thus your body, mind and spirit have suffered.
As far as the abortion goes, sometimes the message hasn't got to the brain yet. The brain might still think you are pregnant? And since it and your ovaries controls your periods then it MIGHT just be that. But I have a sneaky feeling that you might be pregnant again. When the doctors did the abortion they MUST have told you about birth control, it is no different than if you had miscarried, had a full term pregnany with delivery, or had a tubal pregnancy. Your hormones are SO high, that the chances of you conceving again right after any of the above are HUGE!! Most doctors will tell you to wait 3 month before trying again. If they didn't say that to you they have done you a GREAT injustice. If they did and you didn't listen, then there isn't much left to say!
If this IS a close call, and you come out the other side without being pregnant, I want you to do yourself a favor and take sometime for yourself to realize WHY you are letting this happen to yourself. And I am talking about taking a chance with your health, your future and perhaps a baby's future. Your health is key here! Your physical, mental and emotional health. You have to heal all 3 before you can make really adult choices as far as when or if you will have a baby. Because if you do get prgant right away and have to have another abortion, doctors do not look kindly on this AND there can be MAJR complications because of the suddenness. I hope you think more of yourself honey! I wish you health, light and happiness.
As far as the abortion goes, sometimes the message hasn't got to the brain yet. The brain might still think you are pregnant? And since it and your ovaries controls your periods then it MIGHT just be that. But I have a sneaky feeling that you might be pregnant again. When the doctors did the abortion they MUST have told you about birth control, it is no different than if you had miscarried, had a full term pregnany with delivery, or had a tubal pregnancy. Your hormones are SO high, that the chances of you conceving again right after any of the above are HUGE!! Most doctors will tell you to wait 3 month before trying again. If they didn't say that to you they have done you a GREAT injustice. If they did and you didn't listen, then there isn't much left to say!
If this IS a close call, and you come out the other side without being pregnant, I want you to do yourself a favor and take sometime for yourself to realize WHY you are letting this happen to yourself. And I am talking about taking a chance with your health, your future and perhaps a baby's future. Your health is key here! Your physical, mental and emotional health. You have to heal all 3 before you can make really adult choices as far as when or if you will have a baby. Because if you do get prgant right away and have to have another abortion, doctors do not look kindly on this AND there can be MAJR complications because of the suddenness. I hope you think more of yourself honey! I wish you health, light and happiness.
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