Hi i am 19 years old and since getting with my new partner i have been experiencing problems with premature ejeculation. It is a real problem as it happens within minutes of penatration. I feel if i cant satisfy her she will find someone who can. I was wondering if there was any pills or creams that can be purchased to help me with this problem and if they actually work Thanks.
Look, premature ejaculations are mainly psychological. Has this ever happened to you before or has it just started with this new girl?
If you haven’t had any problems before, it means that your anxiety is setting in, and interfering with your ability to last longer. If this is the case, I think that you shouldn’t be thinking about whether you were going to satisfy her or not, you should worry if she is having a good time, if she is enjoying things you are doing to her, you may even make her cum before you enter her vagina by either oral sex, or fingering, or combination of these two, and by touching other parts of her body that she enjoys like breast, inner thighs or whatever she likes. That was you will be more relaxed to go further.
It is actually your anxiety and insecurity that will draw her to other guys, not your sexual performance (at the beginning, and if she’s not nymphomaniac, if you know what I mean).
Girls rarely enter relationships with guys they are not interested in. If it were only sex, yes they do have sex with guys they don’t want to be involved with but when it comes to spending quality time with someone, then they choose.
Back to your problem. Can you recognize the moment you are going to ejaculate or it just happens? If you haven’t been able to control your ejaculations at all, then you should start practicing. There are techniques that help you practice like Masters and Johnson method, Simulation technique. Condom is also said to decrease arousal in some men.
You may also want to use a position where you are less likely to ejaculate fast, like lying on your back. When you are on top of her, it is not the best position while attempting to control ejaculation.
If you haven’t had any problems before, it means that your anxiety is setting in, and interfering with your ability to last longer. If this is the case, I think that you shouldn’t be thinking about whether you were going to satisfy her or not, you should worry if she is having a good time, if she is enjoying things you are doing to her, you may even make her cum before you enter her vagina by either oral sex, or fingering, or combination of these two, and by touching other parts of her body that she enjoys like breast, inner thighs or whatever she likes. That was you will be more relaxed to go further.
It is actually your anxiety and insecurity that will draw her to other guys, not your sexual performance (at the beginning, and if she’s not nymphomaniac, if you know what I mean).
Girls rarely enter relationships with guys they are not interested in. If it were only sex, yes they do have sex with guys they don’t want to be involved with but when it comes to spending quality time with someone, then they choose.
Back to your problem. Can you recognize the moment you are going to ejaculate or it just happens? If you haven’t been able to control your ejaculations at all, then you should start practicing. There are techniques that help you practice like Masters and Johnson method, Simulation technique. Condom is also said to decrease arousal in some men.
You may also want to use a position where you are less likely to ejaculate fast, like lying on your back. When you are on top of her, it is not the best position while attempting to control ejaculation.
You should masturbate before you have sex with her and that will make you last longer.