This is very strange... i've had a gf for a few months and we were doing everything but sex, and i've never had a problem getting an erection. I can also get one when masturbating.
But just recently she wanted to start having sex... and now i can't ever get an erection... or it doesnt stay....
i do feel very anxious... is this mostly a mental problem? if so how do i get around it.... or is this a physical problem?
Would some medication help? Not sure what this counts as.
thx
But just recently she wanted to start having sex... and now i can't ever get an erection... or it doesnt stay....
i do feel very anxious... is this mostly a mental problem? if so how do i get around it.... or is this a physical problem?
Would some medication help? Not sure what this counts as.
thx
OUt of curiosity, do you have a different position that you have sex in that is different from masturbation? This sounds largely mental and I suspect that you are either a little intimidated while having sex with her or at least anxious, and anxiety can prevent you from getting an erection altogether. So take care there. Try a different position during sex and work on getting more comfortable with her. Keep us posted.