My boyfriend visited over the weekend and we attempted to have sex for the second time. We are both virgins and had some trouble getting penetration the first time. This weekend when we tried it seemed to have worked but neither of us were certain how far in he was. I didn't feel any real pain, but it was definitely uncomfortable. The next night we were fooling around again and he fingered me first with one and then with two fingers. I was being maybe too encouraging so he wasn't exactly being gentle. A couple times I felt a sharp pain when he went as far as he could, but it didn't seem out of the ordinary. I felt really wet but figured it was just from being aroused. We went to sleep and the next morning my underwear was soaked with blood and there was blood on my boyfriend's fingers and hand. I just assumed this meant he broke my hymen. I bled all day and some into the next. Then for about a day and a half there was no blood, but today when I woke up there was. How long will this last for? Will it happen again when I have sex? If sex didn't make me bleed then why did fingering? His nails are very short so I don't think he scratched me. But if he did, how will I know?
I know twice my husband was doing that i bled pretty bad and i went in to get it looked and and the Dr. said it look very red and there was little scratches inside me. Even though his finger nails are short it still did some damage. But I'm fine now and haven't had any problems since. I would say wait a little while just to let it heal.