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Ive smoked cigarettes,weed,hash and legal herbal highs fo the past 12 or 13 years.I smoked 200 cigs a week and about 15 spliffs a day.My lung collapsed 3 weeks ago due to a condition in tall thin men called pneumothorax.It was the most painful thing i`ve ever felt and i have had some serious injures in the past from shooting myself with nail guns through the hand to breaking bones in my arms legs you name it.(im a carpenter so injuries ar a given).Anyway because my lung collapsed i was told by doctors to lay off the cigs so i quit everything cold turkey(cigarettes,weed,hash,everything)I have to say im not finding it too hard at all.Im not craving but i do want a cig because i liked them.not because i need them.I miss having a cig after a meal or driving to work.Anyway my girlfriend quit with me.(she only smoked cigs and only smokes about 30 at most a week).Before that our sex life went stale.Once a month if i was lucky :-( Ands she is hot.Very hot.Now were both off the cigs the sex is back on and its EPIC again.She came off the pill too which helped her libido i think.But i do snap at her and i am very opinionated about everything.I know its because the void in my life now from quitting.But my health matters more to me now and i suppose i`ll just have to learn to stop being so snappy and forget about smoking.It will be hard but it will be worth it in the end and my girlfriend and i are getting on better and we dont stink of stale smoke either.another turn on i suppose.
Bottom line is you have to want to give up or get a health scare to quit.The labido will pick up and your body will feel better which means you are in a better mood for closeness.
Thats what i think anyway
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After 11 years of smoking weed and cigs everyday I just quit cold turkey 3 weeks ago. I was smoking half an ounce every week (at the worst stage it was an ounce a week but I got it down to half an ounce a week for the last few years). In week 1 of stopping I wanted to cry or freak out and even had suicidal thoughts and couldn't figure out why, I now know it was the withdrawal symptoms. It got easier after the first few days but I live with 2 people that smoke weed and I realized it's time for me to move out and have a fresh start so I can truly be happy. All my friends are stoners so not sure what life will be like on my own but all I know is it drives me crazy seeing my housemates go out for a joint. Smoking joints was the way we used to connect and socialize. I loved smoking joints so much and although I noticed I was prob addicted 4 years ago it's just recently I realized I had to stop as I started to slow down socially and forget things as well as feel constantly lethargic. Without weed we could be blossoming in so many more areas. It became evident to me if I stopped now I could still achieve my dreams as apposed to ending up homeless. The reality is 3 weeks after stopping and I still feel lethargic but my mind is starting to operate better and absorb more information again. It's def an improvement but I believe weed stops us developing emotionally on some level and possibly the depression I'm feeling now is some kind of repressed feelings of the c**p that's gone on over the past 11 years when I've been numb/high so didn't process it properly. I hope it's not going to take too long to get my energy and laughter back, as I said I know I'm on the right path now but I still don't feel that social, if anyone has any advice from experience I'd be grateful.
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I can sympathise with losing the friends things. When I quit about 8 months ago, I had to move on to a totally different crowd of friends, as all my best friends were regular joint smokers. That plus the gym (definetly a good idea to sweat it all out and start to reap the benefits of ur lungs clearing up) are great ideas.
I also cleaned the house head to toe (hey, u/I got anxiety drivers and an inability to sleep, may aswell use the time somehow ;-) ).
Couple of bit's of advice for anyone who would like my experience:
>Gym or excerise. Get started immediately, build it up and enjoy the feeling of ur lungs getting bigger better stronger clearer.
> Tidy the house, get rid of the typical smoking room u used (if u had one), to try and change the total smell of the place.
>Share the fact u are quiting with someone, if u can, so that they understatnd why u are a bit ranty and uptight all the time.
>It get's better... the question i asked myself was 'If I was to be stranded on a desert island now, would I die because I couldn't get a smoke?' rational reply 'no, it will get better'. and it did...
>Stick with it.... just to confirm, IT DOES get better... The post Ibiza come down I had this year - drink everynight for 7 nights (for a basically non drinker), solid resin and cigarettes in a joint, every night, E (MDMA) twice... and the time of my life with my mates... the two weeks after that, i was ready to slit my wrists... I am hoping going cold turkey today (only been smoking every evening for three months..) will not be quite as bad as it was last time... but here I am still wide awake with less than 4 hours till it's time to get up... lol.
>Keep urself as busy as u can.. the way I see it, is it is about making a personal decision, sticking to it, feeling good u did and just ride out the first period of time as best as u can, it will improve!!!
Good luck to all.
We can survive these situations. The human body will unlearn a habbit, I am sure of it. I proved it once and was fine for 6 months, but broke this stint once when a friend had not tried it before and i got it for them... and shared it. DOH
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I've been chewing nicotine gum since Thursday and haven't smoked weed in 36 hours, been sweating buckets and overall just dont know what to do.. so bored..depressed.. much like other comments on the board
Anyways, as someone who has tried and failed a few times before, I am wondering whether someone who has successfully quit but has failed before can tell me about what the trick is so I'm not back to smoking weed all day again. I'm currently a grad student, still doing really well in school but the pot smoking has been noticed by my classmates (I'm high in class) and im just feeling like this dependency is a sh*t thing.. probably not the natural way to be..
I really hope there is a silver lining with all of this sh*t because it will be really tough to last like this if the sweating, irritability and headaches continue..
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I have smoked both Pot and Cigarettes for 5 years. This will be my 6th attempt to quit smoking cigarettes, and the longest I have gone without pot is one week (only because I had to - travelling, etc). I entered the 'Driven to Quit' challenge, simply to keep me from "Cheating" on the cigarettes (I remind myself they test you, and If I don't win a car b/c I cheated - I would be awfully angry ;). For some reason, I decided to quit smoking pot at the same time... it's been 2 weeks - and I'm still feeling the effects, but I do feel as if the worst is over. The first week is the worst as they say - if you're lucky enough to take a week off, or be able to just get through the first week, sleeping as much as possible helps. I also took a Smokers Cleanse that has a stress releif component that makes you tired at night, which helps (but I'm not very good at taking things on a regular basis) so I've still had a couple sleepless nights... one until 8am. I am VERY thirsty - that you cannot ignore - apparently a cigarette craving is the same feeling as your body telling you to drink water - water is saving my life here. I have always been incredibly ambitious - and found I was starting to speak not as clearly, think clearly, and my self confidence was starting to disappear. In 2 weeks I feel everything coming back. I've also quit during one of the most stressful (financial) times in my life - which some say not to do - I say if you can do it - nothing will every stand in your way, every again.
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Secondly pot smokers usually pick up new habits. Along with the weed I smoked a whole pack of cigarettes and sometimes I had to buy a second pack be4 the store closed at 9. Along with that comes the chugging of 2 red bulls a day to fight off tiredness, eating fast unhealthy food, 2-3 snickers bar a day. Along with that comes the lack of motivation to go out, laziness, distorted sleeping. I used to wake up and instantly smoke a cig and I was too lazy to walk to timmies to buy some coffee, funny how weed reduced my caffeine intake. I also used to spend hrs playing cod black ops.
What am feeling right now at the moment is burning sensation in my lips, headache, enormous mental effort to fight off smoking thoughts,sweating, sleep distortion, and I have an irritative feeling right behind my eyes, dizziness. I also noticed I've become extremely short tempered which I've been dealing with to some extent but one must understand the radical instant change I am commanding. I tried to quit cigarettes and stay on weed but a cigarette after weed is tempting and I failed on numerous times.
Since I had my fair share of weed I think sharing my experience can help alot of ppl.
The FIRST thing you need to do if you've gone down so far is to walk out on every single habit and person (even if they're close friends) that connects your brain to weed. So I sold my xbox and I left everything behind. It's time to grow up and move on if you want to make something useful out of your life. FREE yourself. I hope I can carry on, this is way difficult than I first thought it was but I pray to keep on going. Any voice of support will help
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