I've been really stressing for the last week. My periods were supposed to start on sunday the 20th and they haven't. My boyfriend and I had sex twice over the last 2 weeks. The first time, he put it in for a couple of minutes but had no precum, then we put a condom on and finished up. The 2nd time we did the same, but there was white stuff but he said it was mine and not his precum. I've taken 3 pregnancy tests both in the morning as I wake up and they all came out negative...but stil no sign of periods...please help, what must I do.
You could possibly be pregnant, and it is too early to tell! What you BOTH need to know is that you had UNPROTECTED SEX! So OF COURSE you WILL get pregnant - it doesn't matter if it's for a second, that's ALL 1 sperm needs. You nor he knows if he has viable sperm in his pre cum - NO ONE can tell you that - as there are millions of sperm in each ejaculate. So wait another 5 days, IF your period comes on then I would say you are safe, IF it doesnt I want you to go to the doctor for a blood test - this will take away any chance of errors! You had unprotected sex at the same time you would have been ovulating - on about the 6th! IF you don't want to get pregnant, then stop with the "had unprotected sex for a few minutes" You WILL end up pregnant if this continues! Good luck
He was on holiday on the 6th, and we only had sex on the 8th. Was I still ovulating at this time?
Unfortunately, that would be around the time of your ovulation, if your period was supposed to come on the 20th Then I put your ovulation on the 6th/7th - so you DEFINITELY could be pregnant! So before you go to the doctor, I want you to wait till this Monday then take another test - with your first urine of the date - this would be definitive yes or no! IF it is no, then head to your doctors, you might need a blood test or a vaginal ultrasound to see if there is something going on. Let me know OK? Good luck honey! Hopefully you have told your partner too, because he needs to be clued in to ANY unprotected sex, CAN and WILL end up in pregnancy! I will keep my fingers crossed for you!
Bambi27... Could I have your input on this?
On 1-14-13 myself and this girl were messing around, she gave me head and I finished in some napkins. After this we talked for a bit, before I was leaving I put my hands down her pants and rubbed the outside upper portion of her vagina, which I did not even reach her clit. I am concerned that this may have caused pregnancy. Exactly one week later on 1-21-13 she said she threw up after eating. This happened again on 1-22-13 and 1-23-13. On 1-24-14 she said she felt back to her normal self with no signs of nausea/vomiting. Today 1-25-13 she got sick again in the morning but felt normal the rest of the dat. I do not know if this is morning sickness or possibly the flu. Even though its a bit early, she took a pregnant test which came out negative today (1-25-13). Her last period was on 1-7-13 and her next period should start around 2-4-13. She has regular cycles. she told me she has been nerves about this and is stressing. any information/input on this would be greatly appreciated.
On 1-14-13 myself and this girl were messing around, she gave me head and I finished in some napkins. After this we talked for a bit, before I was leaving I put my hands down her pants and rubbed the outside upper portion of her vagina, which I did not even reach her clit. I am concerned that this may have caused pregnancy. Exactly one week later on 1-21-13 she said she threw up after eating. This happened again on 1-22-13 and 1-23-13. On 1-24-14 she said she felt back to her normal self with no signs of nausea/vomiting. Today 1-25-13 she got sick again in the morning but felt normal the rest of the dat. I do not know if this is morning sickness or possibly the flu. Even though its a bit early, she took a pregnant test which came out negative today (1-25-13). Her last period was on 1-7-13 and her next period should start around 2-4-13. She has regular cycles. she told me she has been nerves about this and is stressing. any information/input on this would be greatly appreciated.
AWESOME information - I wish everyone knew as much as you do! She is NOT pregnant - there is ZERO chance of pregnancy. For ANY remote chance of pregnancy, you would have to insert your fingers - that had just had ejaculate on them - into the vagina! This is the ONLY way of pregnancy - as sperm either have to be ejaculated through the cervical opening, OR placed there (eg. invitro, or say by your fingers placed high - this would be VERY hard, but of course not impossible) There are millions of sperm in each ejaculate. As SOON as they leave the penis, they start dying - by the 10's of thousands, the longer out of the body the more deaths. Seconds are like years, minutes like decades, hours like lifetimes. Thus the body needing to have the penis inserted into the vagina - so there is no air getting to them. Female sperm are the strongest, but even they could NOT swim up into a vagina (they also can "swim" up the length of her vagina - say if the tip of a penis is on the inside of the vaginal opening, they know where to go and will endure anything to get there)! Let her know - she is probably stressed about this and can cause sickness even delayed periods (it's called hysterical pregnancy). Also - just like every other young person asking similar questions, ALWAYS ALWAYS have condoms with you (check to see that they aren't expired), IF you get carried away and you both decide to have intercourse, promise each other that you will both STOP till you have put on a condom! Doing so protects you and she from virtually all STD's/STI's, also when you are about to ejaculate, pull out and ejaculate into the condom away from her vagina. This makes oops's obsolete - as if a condom rips it wont be filled with ejaculate. This also eradicates any chance of pregnancy - when done correctly. Wishing you both health and happiness!
Thank you for your fast reply, I appreciate it! I was just worried even though I finished in the napkins, I was concerned if any may have gotten on my fingers. I did wipe my hands off after though. I know next time to use extra precautions. So you do feel the nausea and vomiting is non pregnancy related? Thanks again
TOTALLY honey! Also if circumstances were different and she WAS pregnant (which she isn't) she wouldn't be sick that quickly. I wont tell you the first signs - as you WONT need to know right?! ;-) Actually the main reason I wont tell you is if you tell her what the symptoms are & she isn't trusting my word on it, she WILL get those symptoms - it's called "Hysterical Pregnancy" Please believe me honey she is NOT even remotely pregnant, nor is there even the slightest chance. Think of yourself as a giant, close to you there are a bunch of mosquito's(sperm)on the pond that are trying to get to you (egg) to feed, it is SO hot outside that the heat dries up ALL of the water - that the mosquito's needs to survive, they start feeling faint and can't really fly. Soon the weak ones start dying, then a few minutes later most are dead, but the ones that are still alive, are barely alive that they can't fly at all!! They ALL are now dead except for one, this one is in a BAD way, he doesn't even have enough strength to find a bit of bare skin (the egg) let alone puncture the skin (the shell) and suck the blood (fertilize the egg IF there is even a chance of there being one there) So it too dies - those mosquito's ARE your sperm OK? ! LOL.
Yes I completely understand and thank you for your time! When I think rationally I agree with you! Just at times my mind gets carried away and races with worst possible outcomes. I have excepted the fact that if she would become pregnant from our scenario that I would take full responsibility and do my part as a man/father. I cant help but always be prepared (have a plan) for any outcome that may occur. We both have talked about what we would do if she would become pregnant, which I feel could have added more stress to her.
Hope to hear back from you soon and will keep you updated!
That is honourable of you, just know that IF you follow my advice, you will more than likely never have to do this! ALWAYS be PREPARED!
Just an update, today we talked about everything again. So after her lunch she got sick once again. She admitted she was over thinking things again. So I don't know if these are pregnancy symptoms or just nerves. Besides today she has felt completely normal. I'm starting to think there is a possibility of pregnancy. Your thoughts? Thanks again for all your time
hi honey! Would you be able to sign up - using a nickname - as I have had several people (just as Guest) so a lot of times I have to go and figure out who's who? She is NOT ZILCH, NADDA, NO WAY JOSE, NEVER pregnant. She probably has the awful stomach flu bug going around. There is ZERO chance of her being pregnant - as it would have had to be LIVE FRESH (as in right out of the body) sperm, that is placed as close to the cervix as possible - or at least in the vagina itself!
Hey Bambi, just an update. She started her period on feb 2, which was normal. To be safe she took a test yesterday, feb 11 and came out negative which was 4 weeks since we fooled around. Can I safely assume she's not pregnant? We also made an appointments for next Wednesday to take a blood test. Is this necessary? And would this be accurate being at 5 weeks since we fooled around? Thank you so much for all your help, means a lot!
I take it that you are the same person I said "NO WAY, ZILCH..." to? IF so then you wasted your money - on the test! She got her period, she NEVER was even a chance of pregnancy in the first place, it's been 4 or 5 weeks - TOTALLY long enough fo ANY chance to show! PLEASE know she is NOT pregnant! AT ALL! I don't know what else to say to you honey! There is ZERO reason to go and get a blood test - her doctor will query why the heck you are STILL wondering about pregnancy? Cancel the appointment - if that's the only reason why you are going - and just relax! You've learned a lot, so I doubt VERY much you will ever chance it in the future?! So Just accept what I say OK?
Thank you for your response, it has eased my mind. I've just herd of people being pregnant while still having bleeding. But ive also herd if the period is normal and on time, that its a good sing shes not pregnant. So that was the only reason for taking the blood test. I think I've read too much online and freaked myself out.