I'm 17, and I recently had sex with my partner on New Years. We have been together for five months now. When we did, it was very rough and he did used a condom but he did take it off, because I guess I wasn't wet and it was hurting. He said he went rough because we haven't had sex in a long time. I went home and looked at my vagina and it was red and swollen. I took a shower and I didn't have any pain until a few hours later. I had to use the restroom and when I did. It was horrible, It was burning and it felt weird while i was peeing. I was very scared and almost fainted, I told my mom to make a appointment for the doctor and she couldn't because it was new years and they weren't open after 5 and it was already 8 o'clock.. :(. I told my mom that it burned when I peed (my mom doesn't know that I'm sexually active) she told me to put iodine on it until we can reach the doctor. I do that while I'm looking in a hand mirror and I noticed tearing around my hole :( it was bleeding a little bit but it was hurting and it was little bumpy (like whenever u scratch yourself on ur leg or arm), that whole night I was very worried and scared, and I was drinking a lot of water so whenever I peed it didn't burn. The next morning, when I peed it didn't burn until I was done peeing but only a little bit. That whole day I was putting iodine and resting. Today is Sunday and I just got up and I checked my vag in a hand mirror and there was a lot of discharge and it smelled weird. I looked it up and it can be a healing discharge, but I am very worried now. :(, I am also worried about going to the doctor because my mom always goes in with me when I see the doctor and while she's in there, my doctor ask if I am sexually active and I want to tell her the truth but I am terrified of my mother.
Do you think that when I make a appointment I can ask them to tell my mom to wait in the waiting room? What should I do until i can go to the doctor? and why am I discharging?
I can absolutely tell you this.. I will not be having sex for along time, this experience has been traumatizing
:( Happy New Year