Me and my gf have used the pullout method periodically for a couple months now *I know it's not safe and I should be wearing a condom (which I usually do)*. The last time we did it, two nights ago, I pulled because I thought I was going to cum. I stopped myself, but right before I almost orgasm'd, liquid came out like precum. It was a decent amount, and I'm just wondering if this was precum, or actual sperm coming out. It had the consistency like precum, but so much came out that I was just curious. We had sex about 5 minutes later after the incident happened, and my penis started to feel sensitive like if I had ejaculated, but not to the full extent. Is this normal? Thanks.
IF YOU HAD EJACULATED - HOW ON EARTH DID YOU HAVE SEX 5 MINS LATER???????
MY HUSBAND HAS QUITE ALOT OF PRECUM SOMETIMES. BUT I HONESTLY COULDNT TELL YOU IF YOU WERE INSIDE HER AND COULDNT SEE THE STEPS YOUR PENIS WENT THROUGH.
I DO KNOW THOUGH THAT 5 MINUTES IS NOT ENOUGH TIME TO BECOME COMPLETELY FLACCID AFTER SEX, AND IT TAKES MOST MEN ALOT LONGER THAN 5 MINS TO RECHARGE AND BE READY FOR THE NEXT SESSION.
MY HUSBAND TAKES AT THE VERY LEAST 20 MINUTES, AND THEN THATS NOT AS ENJOYABLE AS IF WE WAITED LONGER, SIMPLY B/C IT DOESNT GIVE THE BODY ENOUGH TIME TO REFUEL- & FOR SOME REASON THE BETTER THE ORGASM THE MORE THE EJACULATE- AND IF THERES NOT ENOUGH TIME FOR THE EJACULATE TO "RELOAD" ITS NOT AS INTENSE THE SECOND TIME ROUND.
BUT********* IF FELT LIKE YOU WERE COMING, YOU PROBABLY DID, AND PULLED OUT MIDSTREAM.
PRECUM COMES OUT QUITE A BIT BEFORE EJACULATING. WAY BEFORE YOU FEEL THE URGE RISING IN YOUR PENIS OF ORGASM COMING.
YOU KNOW YOU CAN STILL GET YOUR GF PREGNANT FROM YOUR PRECUM??
IS SHE ON BIRTHCONTROL?
I STRONGLY RECOMMEND IT WITH YOU TWO BEING SO INCONSISTANT WITH USING CONDOMS.
MY HUSBAND HAS QUITE ALOT OF PRECUM SOMETIMES. BUT I HONESTLY COULDNT TELL YOU IF YOU WERE INSIDE HER AND COULDNT SEE THE STEPS YOUR PENIS WENT THROUGH.
I DO KNOW THOUGH THAT 5 MINUTES IS NOT ENOUGH TIME TO BECOME COMPLETELY FLACCID AFTER SEX, AND IT TAKES MOST MEN ALOT LONGER THAN 5 MINS TO RECHARGE AND BE READY FOR THE NEXT SESSION.
MY HUSBAND TAKES AT THE VERY LEAST 20 MINUTES, AND THEN THATS NOT AS ENJOYABLE AS IF WE WAITED LONGER, SIMPLY B/C IT DOESNT GIVE THE BODY ENOUGH TIME TO REFUEL- & FOR SOME REASON THE BETTER THE ORGASM THE MORE THE EJACULATE- AND IF THERES NOT ENOUGH TIME FOR THE EJACULATE TO "RELOAD" ITS NOT AS INTENSE THE SECOND TIME ROUND.
BUT********* IF FELT LIKE YOU WERE COMING, YOU PROBABLY DID, AND PULLED OUT MIDSTREAM.
PRECUM COMES OUT QUITE A BIT BEFORE EJACULATING. WAY BEFORE YOU FEEL THE URGE RISING IN YOUR PENIS OF ORGASM COMING.
YOU KNOW YOU CAN STILL GET YOUR GF PREGNANT FROM YOUR PRECUM??
IS SHE ON BIRTHCONTROL?
I STRONGLY RECOMMEND IT WITH YOU TWO BEING SO INCONSISTANT WITH USING CONDOMS.
Well yeah I understand. She's not on BC, but I'm just curious if like an ejaculation can stop like...mid ejaculation? Or was the stuff that came out just excess precum that was built up? That's what I'm most curious about.
I've paused an ejaculation a few times trying to hold out longer but the fluid that comes out is baby-batter no doubt. Don't take chances like that without proper birth control methods in place.
Thanks Ninja. Chances are that she's not pregnant though right? I know this sounds extremely ignorant, just I'm really worried now. She has an appointment in a few days to talk to her doctor about birth control, so we are taking the proper steps. As of now, I know it's stupid to have unprotected sex without BC, but I know that I never ejaculated inside of her, so for the most part she's probably not pregnant right? I understand that some of the leftover sperm might have been transfered during the sex we had after, but it's not a guarantee that its enough? I'm just looking for something right now :-P.
The best encouragement I can offer is that as much trouble as some people have getting pregnant you might be OK. I had unprotected sex with an ex-girfriend on a regular basis years ago and always pulled out early but I did worry sometimes when I waited a bit longer and would be oozing pre-cum as I withdrew before I actually ejaculated. We were lucky.
Thanks again Ninja. I guess the best thing I can do is just wait out until her next period which is in about two weeks, eek. Hopefully everything works out. Thanks again.
In the meantime you guys might want to switch to mutual masterbation or oral sex... ;-)
if its been within 3 days, I would suggest your girl friend take an ecp, emergency contraceptive pill- the morning after pill- just to make sure- so wont have to wait for her period....
you can get at at a pharmacy- you have to ask for it, from her doctor, or from any planned parenthood.
be safe. don't geuss. she could be pregnant, so if you both dont want to be, take the pill. its worth it.
you can get at at a pharmacy- you have to ask for it, from her doctor, or from any planned parenthood.
be safe. don't geuss. she could be pregnant, so if you both dont want to be, take the pill. its worth it.
adventuresofava, I've never heard of that pill (am I out of touch?) but it's a great suggestion!
the one most commonly is called "plan-B"
its basically 2 pills that you take at the same time, or one in morning one later that day- however youre directed to take it- the package says, one in the morning one at night, but my gyn has always said to take both of them at once, and youll have less side effects, so I would ask the pharmacist or the doc whichever youre getting the pill from.
And it is basically an amped up pill of of a synthetic progestin called levonorgestrel, which is commonly used in birth control pills.
it shouldnt be used inplace of the pill, but is used for if no contraceptive was used to prevent pregnancy.
And doesnt protect against stds.
side effects are:
bleeding during menstruation is either heavier or lighter the next time.
she can get he period up to one week earlier than normal or one wek later than normal. if her period is more than one week late she should check with her doctor to see if she is in fact pregnent. it also says to call your doc if you have severe abdominal pain b/c it could be an ecoptic pregnancy (progestin pills are known, or is more likely to cause this, versus a regular pregnancy)
- but the basic side effects are:
23% of people get nausea
18% get abdominal pain
17% tiredness & headache
17% dizziness
10% breast tenderness
5-6% experience vomiting or diarrhea.
The "morning after pill" has been around for a long time, it is just more widely available now, and is more acceptable in society as birth control and planned parenting become more popular, and sex more acceptable in younger couples.
its basically 2 pills that you take at the same time, or one in morning one later that day- however youre directed to take it- the package says, one in the morning one at night, but my gyn has always said to take both of them at once, and youll have less side effects, so I would ask the pharmacist or the doc whichever youre getting the pill from.
And it is basically an amped up pill of of a synthetic progestin called levonorgestrel, which is commonly used in birth control pills.
it shouldnt be used inplace of the pill, but is used for if no contraceptive was used to prevent pregnancy.
And doesnt protect against stds.
side effects are:
bleeding during menstruation is either heavier or lighter the next time.
she can get he period up to one week earlier than normal or one wek later than normal. if her period is more than one week late she should check with her doctor to see if she is in fact pregnent. it also says to call your doc if you have severe abdominal pain b/c it could be an ecoptic pregnancy (progestin pills are known, or is more likely to cause this, versus a regular pregnancy)
- but the basic side effects are:
23% of people get nausea
18% get abdominal pain
17% tiredness & headache
17% dizziness
10% breast tenderness
5-6% experience vomiting or diarrhea.
The "morning after pill" has been around for a long time, it is just more widely available now, and is more acceptable in society as birth control and planned parenting become more popular, and sex more acceptable in younger couples.
also even if a woman is on the pill. ( a regular birth control pill)
and has taken antibiotics, (theres a list of drugs, that can cause the effectiveness of the pill to decrease) it is wise to use backup during that cycle- her birthcontrol will not be 99% effective until her next cycle.
I have had family members get pregnant this way.
Unprotected sex while on an antibiotic- is also another red flag to take an ecp, if youre worried about having an unplanned pregnancy.
If youre ok with maybe becoming pregnant than dont worry about it, but if you absolutely dont want kids, be prepared, and get informed, and know whats out there.
; )
and has taken antibiotics, (theres a list of drugs, that can cause the effectiveness of the pill to decrease) it is wise to use backup during that cycle- her birthcontrol will not be 99% effective until her next cycle.
I have had family members get pregnant this way.
Unprotected sex while on an antibiotic- is also another red flag to take an ecp, if youre worried about having an unplanned pregnancy.
If youre ok with maybe becoming pregnant than dont worry about it, but if you absolutely dont want kids, be prepared, and get informed, and know whats out there.
; )
Great point!
What a perdicament you are in. Pre-cum has less of a chance of containing too many sperm IF you have not ejaculated anytime recent.
BUT if you felt like you acually came but it looked different, you still may have came.. but hasd an orgasm without an actual ejaculation. That is why you could pick up in 5 minutes and go again.
My hubby can do this, but he can also ejaculate and just keep going, stay hard and cum again and again. SO it is very possible that a man have multiple orgasms just like a woman can. If the timing and feeling is right anything can happen. We do this at least 2 times a week. (Makes him quiet tire tho ;-) )
I would watch her period close, get her on birth control and then you will feel so much better.
Good luck and hope everything turns out well!
BUT if you felt like you acually came but it looked different, you still may have came.. but hasd an orgasm without an actual ejaculation. That is why you could pick up in 5 minutes and go again.
My hubby can do this, but he can also ejaculate and just keep going, stay hard and cum again and again. SO it is very possible that a man have multiple orgasms just like a woman can. If the timing and feeling is right anything can happen. We do this at least 2 times a week. (Makes him quiet tire tho ;-) )
I would watch her period close, get her on birth control and then you will feel so much better.
Good luck and hope everything turns out well!
Are you kidding??????
I have never heard of a man ejaculating- and then being able to ejaculate again right after- or even stay completely hard-
I almost dont believe you.
Thats interesting.
I have never heard of a man ejaculating- and then being able to ejaculate again right after- or even stay completely hard-
I almost dont believe you.
Thats interesting.