My b/f and I tried having sex for the first time the other night. We were trying to take it slow because im a virgin. So he use his finger a lot. We did go all the way came close though. He wentg in a few times but didnt stay in. He used his finger mostly. It has been 2 days now. Im sore down there and it burns when I pee. Today is the 2nd day and now im bleeding a little too. Im confused and worried and dont have any one to talk to. Can someone help me. Could I have a STD or somthing?
It’s bad you are going through something like this yet at the beginning of your sex life but lets say this is nothing you should be paranoid about because you are immediately asking for help. The thing is, if your partner has already had sex partners before you, then you might have a STD or it’s just a UTI (urinary tract infection) that usually occurs when bacteria enter the opening of the urethra and multiply in the urinary tract. If it’s not treated it progresses to the upper urinary tract (kidneys). So as you are a woman and you discovered blood in your urine, it is most likely that you have UTI. On the other hand, some bacterial STDs are not excluded as well (gonorrhea, Chlamydia) as these bacteria could also cause hematuria (blood in urine). What I suggest is to talk to your partner about this (he knows the best what he’s been through considering STDs) and also you should be tested for STD and, ofcourse, you should see your doctor (urologist) who might prescribe you some antibiotics for UTI. Good luck!