I actually have a few questions,
First off when me and my boyfriend get in the 'mood' and were making out he always trys to go down on me with his fingers. and absolutely no problem with that. EXCEPT he can never find my goddamn C L I T. I mean damn that's where it feels absolutely unbelievable. hes found it once. and i try to explain to him where it is. but i don't know. He just can FIND IT on his own. and I'm going to let him read this so give your advice.
Second.
Right before we get down and freaky. he try to go down south on me. but again HE DOES NOT KNOW WHAT HE'S DOING! I tried to explain it to him. i gave him a article i found online. AND HE SUCKS. i mean i even tell him straight up. What can I do? I love it. But he doesn't do it right. EVER.
Third:
Whenever we do end p having sex, It always hurts after. it feels raw. and it hurts like f**k. Reason? He's my first time WITH SEX.
Fourth:
The sloppier and wetter the blowjob.. Is it the better? Is there anything fun i can do with my tongue ring to make the experience more FUN and AROUSING?
Ps.
He has had other girlfriends. That he was sexual with. Eating out fingering. am i just to picky? or did none of the others have the guts to tell him "YOU SUCK"?!
Please mostly pay attention to the first 2 question.
First off when me and my boyfriend get in the 'mood' and were making out he always trys to go down on me with his fingers. and absolutely no problem with that. EXCEPT he can never find my goddamn C L I T. I mean damn that's where it feels absolutely unbelievable. hes found it once. and i try to explain to him where it is. but i don't know. He just can FIND IT on his own. and I'm going to let him read this so give your advice.
Second.
Right before we get down and freaky. he try to go down south on me. but again HE DOES NOT KNOW WHAT HE'S DOING! I tried to explain it to him. i gave him a article i found online. AND HE SUCKS. i mean i even tell him straight up. What can I do? I love it. But he doesn't do it right. EVER.
Third:
Whenever we do end p having sex, It always hurts after. it feels raw. and it hurts like f**k. Reason? He's my first time WITH SEX.
Fourth:
The sloppier and wetter the blowjob.. Is it the better? Is there anything fun i can do with my tongue ring to make the experience more FUN and AROUSING?
Ps.
He has had other girlfriends. That he was sexual with. Eating out fingering. am i just to picky? or did none of the others have the guts to tell him "YOU SUCK"?!
Please mostly pay attention to the first 2 question.
Wow - there is a lot going on here! How old are each of you?
To briefly give some answers....for the 1st two questions - SHOW HIM what you like. Put your hand on top of his and guide him. Move his head to where YOU want it! Masturbate for him even so he sees what you like!
Third - try using some lubrication. Perhaps you just don't produce enough natural lubrication to be comfortable. Being that it's your first time certainly has something to do with it as well.
For the 4th questions - it's probably preference! I don't like it sloppy at all. I would say most guys like you to focus a bit on the head - that is the most sensitive part of the penis...similar to the clitoris!
id say watch porn together and if u see something you like suggest that you guys do it. find one that has a girl getting eatin out and maybe he will figure it out. As for him not being able to find ur clit guide his hands there. Dont be afraid to take control and tell him what u want.
they sell vibrating tounge rings. I never tried it but it sounds fun