I am 12 years old and i have had sex with 5 diffrent guys..but it is currently may 11th and i havent had sex since march.. i had a period in april and i was suppost to start May 2nd and i havent yet,,i dont know what to do..can sum 1 help me? :cry:
I am trying really hard not to go into a lecture about how you are way too young to deal with the physical and emotional responsibility that comes along with sex....That is not what you came here for- However, I must at least say please, PLEASE go to your towns free clinic (everyone has one) and get on the pill. Most places you don't even have to use your real name (although you should because all places CANNOT tell your parents) AND please please above all....Use condoms.
Okay...to your question. Since you had your period in April chances are you are not pregnant your period is late for another reason (ie stress,,,or just body changes- at 12 your period is rarely "regular") Lets hope....at any rate it IS possiable to get a period while pregnant (although not common) so going and picking up a pregnancy test and taking it (you can even take it at the bathroom at the store to prevent your parents from finding out) OR if you cant find the money to buy one have them do a pregnancy test when you go to your free clinic for the birth control pill....(they will do this anyways) I have my fingers crossed for you and please come back and update if you can. Good luck and please be safe. Just because you have already had sex doesn't mean you cant take a couple years off before doing it again (sorry for the lecture but 12 and pregnant or worse 12 with a STD is a scary thought....even if you were lucky enough to get neither of these sex carries a lot of emotional baggage....you are making yourself completely vulnerable to another person and that alone isn't anything to mess with) Again, I wish you all the luck and hope everything turns out okay.
Okay...to your question. Since you had your period in April chances are you are not pregnant your period is late for another reason (ie stress,,,or just body changes- at 12 your period is rarely "regular") Lets hope....at any rate it IS possiable to get a period while pregnant (although not common) so going and picking up a pregnancy test and taking it (you can even take it at the bathroom at the store to prevent your parents from finding out) OR if you cant find the money to buy one have them do a pregnancy test when you go to your free clinic for the birth control pill....(they will do this anyways) I have my fingers crossed for you and please come back and update if you can. Good luck and please be safe. Just because you have already had sex doesn't mean you cant take a couple years off before doing it again (sorry for the lecture but 12 and pregnant or worse 12 with a STD is a scary thought....even if you were lucky enough to get neither of these sex carries a lot of emotional baggage....you are making yourself completely vulnerable to another person and that alone isn't anything to mess with) Again, I wish you all the luck and hope everything turns out okay.