sex with an overweight woman

well coming from a big girl personally its tiring to be on top and it makes a bigger girl very self consious to be ontop when your partner is smaller in weight than you nothing personal doesnt matter how much difference in weight. its just how we mostly feel a good way to do side by side is have her lay on her side with her 1 leg on your shoulder the other between your legs or if more comfortable bent around your leg it gets deep penetration and also hits her g spot u will feel her walls and it opens her legs wide enough for u to see u entering as well as you should be able to access her vagina ass wont get in the way or thighs and also feels great for you. try to do doggie style off of the bed with her legs spread.i personally am a very sexual person and am the same way as she is it takes a bit to get used to what people like and dont like i recommend foreplay very much because it will help her get a start on going to cum introduce toys if you have to theres many that are good also it is greatly important you have a conversation with her she may be feeling the same way that she wants to shake it up in the bedroom well goood luck to you i hope that my tips help you

My dear sex is life. Please separate from him and find yourself a boyfriend. Life is what you make it. Snoring is one thing that puts women off,therefore I understand you well.gal go for new love . do not waste time


Margaret

I love that you wrote this post because I am plus size but now extremely overweight. I sometimes get very conscious of me being on top because I feel as if I am going to crush my partner or that he will get a great view of my fat. I just wanted to hear that there are some on top positions for plus size girls. Thanks!

I was just wanted to say I am a plus size woman I have had two kids naturally and I was in a relationship with a large man before. I know this might be hard for you so maybe you can figure out a nice way to come about it, you can look up what I am saying and decided where to buy. But after two kids and big guys a man that is 4 inch still thinks I am tight Kegal balls what she needs to do is put them in and walk around with them all day or a couple hours take them out and then do it again not only will she get tighter and you will like sex a lot more she will also get more excited to because it stimulates the Gspot also

what position do you put urself in to ride so it doesnt hurt ur legs lol i cant seem to do it right ooops

Maybe a dumb question, but do you mean drinking lemon juice or pouring it on yourself?

where r u from guest?

love your post, you made me smile and the way you worded things was perfect. I am a big girl and am always worried about what my sexual partner thinks of me....if I had a guy talk to me with the humour and straightforwardness you just did in your post I don't think I would be so unsure of myself
some woman is lucky to have you in her bed!

leatherjackets99 wrote:

While men who are overweight can enjoy sex just as much as the next guy, it seems that the feat is not always as simple as it sounds. Certain sex positions aren't very fulfilling and may make for awkward moments, so today's tip is dedicated to the horizontally challenged, but turned on nevertheless.

First off, it's very important to have good stamina because sex is not a spectator sport. You have to be ready to delve into the act with your heart, soul and big-boned body. Don't just lay there, always keep yourself involved -- unless of course, she's the dominant type and wants you to submit to her (yum).

THE ULTIMATE MOVE:

For creativity and a different angle on things (that's right, I said it), here's a novel position that'll have her juicing from the get-go. Keep in mind that variety is great when it comes to bedroom antics, so keep the ideas, among other things, coming.

Get your woman to lie on her side in a fetal-like position (on her side with knees bent). Again, pillows are your friend; use them sparingly. Place a few of them under her hip and before jumping into the goods, kiss and stroke her body first. But if the pillows make her uncomfortable, then don't use them.

Now, you should be kneeling like you would if you were going in the doggy way. For variety, you can lift one of her legs and place it on your shoulder. Once you get the gist of it, this can be the greatest position you've ever discovered.

LET HER TOP THAT:

Perhaps having her on top of you would be somewhat hard considering you might both have big tummies, but there is still a way around this. This time, you can place a couple of pillows under your own butt and she can take her designated mark.

While on top, she should lean back and place her weight on her hands whilst using her feet to motion herself up and down on your hot rod. Once you achieve a rhythmic coordination, you'll wonder why you didn't let her do this from the start!

As well, she can ride you in the reverse way; you can bend your knees and she can simply turn around, and voilà. She's better off squatting in this position, but because it requires very strong legs, perhaps she can just grind her body back and forth against your member. This is great for clitoral stimulation.

FLYING LEGS:

For variety, lift her legs up and place them on your shoulders whilst in the missionary position. Again, you can use the pillows, or you can simply elevate her until her butt is barely touching the bed (strong like bull). Do whatever feels more comfortable since you're going to be in the said position for a little while.

As well, ensure that she's comfortable and not struggling or trying her best to avoid placing her weight on you. Through her body language, you'll be able to tell if she's enjoying it or feels like she's about to pull a hamstring.

While penetrating her, rub her legs gently and slowly grind in and out. Turn your head to the side and kiss her ankles, hold on to her thighs, or lift her butt with your hands whilst doing your sexy thing.

THE WOOF APPEAL:

You knew this one was coming, and I know you're happy to see it here. That's right; the infamous doggy style is for people of all shapes and sizes, although certain body types may still not be able to pull this one off.

If you have a potbelly that's tight and reaches all the way down to your lower abdomen, then perhaps the aforementioned positions will be better suited for you. But if your beer belly is mushy and moveable, then turn her around and get cracking.

Place your partner on all fours, and before you let yourself go wild, take the time to caress her back and reach underneath to caress her breasts. Appreciate her body and then go in for the kill. Place your little man inside her and embrace her lower cheeks -- and hey, if she's up for it, give her a little spank for her spunk.

PLENTY OF FUN FOR ALL:

There are plenty of things for lovers to do, the key is to keep the ideas fresh as often as possible. Don't be afraid to try new things; that's the only way you'll figure out what you love. And hey, if you're comfortable enough to engage in sex, then you should be comfortable enough to discuss what you enjoy about it.

And there you have it; some easy ways to keep her satisfied and get a little satisfaction of your own at the same time. Until next time, enjoy that big butt.

I love your post, you made me smile and the way you worded things was perfect. I am a big girl and am always worried about what my sexual partner thinks of me....if I had a guy talk to me with the humour and straightforwardness you just did in your post I don't think I would be so unsure of myself
some woman is lucky to have you in her bed!

im 5'4; 160 lbs and I LOVE THE IDEAS YOU ALL HAVE GIVEN ME!

Hey sweetheart, i understand how you feel i was with my ex for six years and we both were overweight. Me being a little bit more overweight then him. But i would ride him ever now and again and it really isn't as awkward as i thought it would be. I found that if I had my knees on the bed as well as my hands on something, either the bed, headboard, wall his hands, anything (doing this makes it so your full weight isn't on him). and i just rocked my hips back and forth it always got him going. And it really got me going to because without you really trying your clitoris gets some attention which is always great for women. I completely understand the intimidation of it all be there really is no harm in trying it out because that is the fun in sex and trying new things helps you realize what your really like sexual. Don't be afraid to explore each other sexually.

I am 27 years old. 5'7 a little over 400 lbs my boyfriend is 24, 6'0 220 and a 8 1/2 inch penis and thick. Sex has never been an issue for us, we enjoy all positions, if i am on my back he puts my legs up over his shoulders and when he moved up it moves me up as well.

Dont give up girl

i hope u are not still married to this man today...you deserve better how sad is this smh..