sex with an overweight woman

My Husband and I are both are large and we always kids about having better sex than skinny people. He is all about pleasing me! we will lye opposit and he will finger my clit and use both hands while I rub on his penis. this may go on for more than 30-45 minutes. I cum the most this way and he loves to have me cum!. When he is ready to cum he will place both of my feet on his shoulders and kneel in fron of me, this is the best way to get deep penatration. He is also about 6". So try pleaseing her and see what happens! It fun!!

Aley87 wrote:

I think sex is a privledge - not a neccessaty. I also believe if your NOT willling to loose weight in order to have healthy sex without experiencing heart attack type symptoms? then dont have sex at all! Infact, dont be in any form of intimate relationship as well. Very large obese people should be focusing more on there health then sexual intimacy. As i said, sex is a privledge, not a neccessaty. I am a very large girl with having put on over 30 kilos in 6 years (still young...24). I am beyond discusted in myself and because of this i sleep seperately to my partner. He knows how i feel about my weight and how discusted i am so hes ok with it. I would rather a special "man and woman" type relationship with him picking me up and laying me on the bed feeling light, and wearing something skimpy, having him carrying me, trusting all my faith in him. Anything other than that is yuck. A woman is meant to be feminie, sexy, not an over load of lard! A friend once told me.. If you dont find yourself attractive enough to have sex with, how do you expect somebody else to.

Wow!!!! Obviously you have big issues! And really crappy friends! First off not everyone who is overweight is completley unhealthy and will have "heart attack type symptoms" thats obviously your issue and it is probably a good idea to go see a doctor! Sex is good for the heart body mind and soul honey! You can still be feminine while being big, if you found this you were obviously looking for ways for you yourself to enjoy sex with the extra weight. I am not confident everyday or all the time, if your man is still willing to be in a relationship with you after the extra pounds and sacrifices his needs he either loves the sh*t out of you, or he is cheating on you and getting his needs satisfied elsewhere. I got ten bucks says he would rather have sex with his "lover" or his hand over you because you have your own issues and are disregarding his needs! Go see a doctor and get some anti depressants and a gym membership if you are so "yuck" do not sit here and tell 90% of the people on here commenting that they are gross or "yuck" as you say! for being yes young u have the immaturity of a 12 yr old!

    Ok, so i didn't make it past page 3, but hadn't seen anyone mention PRONE yet, i'm 5'9, 210 lbs penis is 5.6", wife is 5'7 270 lbs. Her large thighs and bottom (or my average sized penis) make some positions impossible, but with her on her stomach on the bed, a pillow under her pelvis, use light lube on her inner thighs and generously on your shaft, enter from behind straddling her, and enjoy.
    I prefer vaginal sex and this position is great for such, its also perfect for when things are taking to long. I wouldent suggest starting with prone unless your aiming for a quickie.

im sure the original poasters question was answered years ago, but just wanted to share an amazing position, also, refrain from watching porn with smaller women in it, as this will only lead to you desiring something you can't/don't have... or porn in general if you view it excessively

Fined yourself a man who likes you for who your are and wants to have sex.......sex is great with the right person and any women can orgasm! You just need to find what works for you and if you haven't orgasmed before it may take awhile.....but once youve started you won't be able to stop. As you get older it is easier to orgasm, because the walls of the vagina are thinner.

My hubby of 25 years has gained a ton of weight and it's all in his gut area which makes his penis very small. We rarely have sex and when or if we do it's not good. I am a plus sized woman and have been for most of our marriage an am self conscious. He doesn't even care that we have no sex life, we don't even cuddle, I feel stupid cuz I have to practically beg him to make love to me. He claims he's not interested or he just don't feel up to it.  He has cheated on me in the past and I accepted it. I am just tired of having to pleasure myself! :$

I am a pretty big girl, 5'10 230-240lbs. i have 46in hips, 38in waist and 42in Bust. My man is 6'4-6'6 weighing about 210lbs with a 7-8in Penis. We are in a long distance relationship and we just lost our virginity to each other a year ago. we have been together 3 years now.

anyways. we couldnt experiment a lot, We had 2 super single beds pushed together so my big legs and him couldnt fit on one bed and my leg would spread the beds apart and my leg would fall. we tried across but the motions just pushed them away as well. I was about 5'8 when I stayed with him. we wanted to try doggy style but his legs are so long, It didnt work, So all we did was me on top or him on top. I had trouble being on top because my hips would so to hurting after a little while, I have always had trouble with them sliding in an out of place as well as my knees and shoulders. He would have to pull me to him and do the work after a while, Which was very pleasing to me, But he would fall out every once in a while, and the condoms we used were not helping, They were too small and were keeping his penis from getting fully erect and the lubricant on them were numbing both of us. He is not a Circumsized man, so his foreskin was also pushing it off and I have strong vaginal muscles and they would grab it and pull it off, and the deeper he got the more it would do that. He managed to give me several orgasms but he didnt get what we were expecting. I would have had 5-6 by the time he was ready to pull out and finish himself, which was 30 minutes to an hour after we started having the sex, and even then he said from the lubricant he couldn't hardly feel it.. leave it to my dad to buy bad condoms! I knew it was the lubricant because I went to finish him orally and after we took the condom off and I started, My lips got all numb. the lube was like Orajel and Grease mixed together and actually gagged me. i had it on my phone for several days because it wouldn't come off and after playing with my phone my fingertips would feel all Weird.

anyways, To make a long storg short, so far, even with small condoms with numbing lube on them, Missionary. spice it up with the legs on his shoulds or over your head. I would lift my hips up causing deeper penetration and during the first few minutes of it before we both lost most of our feeling, It would drive us both crazy. I say experiment. I havent physically been eith him again yet since then, But when I am I will post our next encounter.

I myself love having sex with overweight female because they are must freindly individuals - all they want is be loved to

Hello! I am so glad I found this website.  I am a 24 year old female, I am 5'3 and currently 195lbs carrying most of my weight in my hips and thighs. I haven't always been this size, my normal has always been 135-145lbs. I gained most of the weight in the past 2 years because I was very sick, then depressed. During this time I wasn't in a relationship and wasn't sexually active.  I am now healthy and well and decided to begin dating a few months ago. I am a PhD student and over the summer I met a very nice guy. He is 18 years old, 6'5 and (I am guessing) 280-295lbs which is mostly muscle since he is in our college football team.  We have been dating for about a month, and we decided to be intimate. However, things aren't as great as I had hoped. He has an average size penis, has great stamina and we both have compatible sex drives. Since he is so heavy I can't have him on top of me for very long before he starts hurting me. THe first couple of times we tried missionary but the next day I was bruised up and sore everywhere. Though I have learned to love and accept my body, I still don't know how to operate it at my current size. The last time I had sex before this I was smaller and very flexible. So far, I have tried cowgirl, but because of my thighs and butt it doesn't feel right and he keeps slipping out. Doggie seems to work but penetration isn't great.  I just don't know what to do. Please help. 

I am an overweight woman. I just had my fiancé's baby 10 months ago and its been pretty hard getting off extra, i have found sex with my man has been very good. There are plenty of positions with women that are heavy set. And you could try to make it a little fun like foreplay or games. And if those don't work why not sit her down and just express to her that it would beneficial to her health and your relationship if maybe she started exercising. Maybe its something you guys could do together. I notices my fiancé want all that thrilled about the weight either but we decided to start working out together making it a family thing. Him gaining muscles and me losing weight. being sensitive in your approach but still addressing an issue will have a good outcome. If you ail want to be with her then make it a point to express your needs because she should try to please you too.

Well am a 23years old virgin, i'm 6'2,165lb, my penis size is 7inches.. This post is important to me, since i find fat women very attractive and sexy.

You're 46 still relatively young I suggest you meet me.

I am a full figured woman and love having sex with my man as much as we can. At first it was not joyable but I learned to try new ways to make it work. He likes it when I'm on top but I felt as if I was to heavy till he said to me if I thought you were to much I wouldn't have asked you to ride. We love it each and try new things all the time. Oral sex works if other ways don't work. Finger your girl while eating her p***y works. Then she sucks you till u are satified.

I could give u what u need

Okay I am a 36 yrs young 5'2" I weigh close to 300 lbs my husband is 6'2" he is not well endowed in the penis region but I love how it feels however there are positions that only work for us cause of his height and all we have tried missionary but it always slips out so we try smoenthing else.  We have tried him standing on the floor and me on the bed laying down at edge of bed that seems to work cause we have a rather high bed but we need some othere postions.  Does anyone have any ideas that we could use to spruce it up.  I like the pillow ideas as we have never done that before.

I dont usually reply to forums - but had to say something.
I have been married 13 years and we have 3 kids and I had them all naturally, my last pregnancy was difficult and I gained alot of weight, at least 70 lbs. My Baby was 10 pounds at birth - tha and being overweight makes me very loose now. we didnt have sex for nearly 2 years because we couldnt find the right position that would stimulate both of us. ( and I was self-concious and I just settled that this was to be our fate for the rest of our married life - if it lasted any longer) recently (being sexually frustrated) We went out and bought sex toys - a 7 inch, wider dido and a small anal one (finger size) - let me just say that I have never had so many orgasms in my EnTIRE life. We feel like newlyweds again. dont give up ! try new things - toys are GREAT!

Mrs.ATL wrote:

Bronco wrote:

I have experience I would like to share. I am 49 years old , (5'6",160lbs with 6" penis) I was married to a very skinny woman (5'4" 96lbs tiny breasts , hips and butt), after our breakup I was dating much younger "Amazon" woman (5'9" 250lbs and very muscular) and I now have a "chubby" girlfriend (5'2" a70lbs 38dd breasts , belly roll and thick butt) and sex is A LOT different with women of different body types!
My skinny ex wife was so easy to have sex with and I could give her multiple orgasms almost every time. She was so small any and every possible position worked for us and I had to take it easy and not go too deep into her in some positions. We had 3 babies, all C section and her vagina was very tight with a large clit and long thin labia. She was happy with sex once a night every other night. We had a very satisfying sex life for both of us.
My young "Amazon' woman really surprised me. She had 2 babies naturally and had a nice snug vagina. She told me that large men liked to brag to her about their large penises and she would refuse to have sex with them because she did not enjoy large penises. She was athletic and strong so that was very exciting for me after 20 years of a relatively week little woman. I took cialis and we would spend long weekends having sex several times a day.We had sex in several positions regularly and we both orgasms every time and enjoyed each other very much.
Now I am with a lady I love but she is chubbier that I would like. I enjoy touching her everywhere. Her large breasts and butt are a real turn on for me and even her belly roll feels good to touch but her vagina is looser that I wish. She had ! baby c section, 3 babies naturally and a big husband with a large penis. She is so thick that we can only use a few positions. She likes it from behind and with her on top with her leaning over me and my penis in firm contact with her small clit. Sometimes I worry that she is going to break me off she pushes so hard. She Loves the way my slim penis gets so hard and gives her clit stimulation. I can touch her big butt and see, touch, and suck her breasts as they hang down and that is what turns me on...not her loose vagina. She also likes me doggie style and my stimulation is mainly from seeing her and touching her butt, not vaginal friction. Her vagina is big enough that we sometimes place a vibrator inside her vagina to give stimulation and take up some of the extra space inside while we have sex in the missionary position. We enjoy sex almost every night, she likes me to wake her up early for sex and then drift off for another hours sleap in the mornings and doesn't mind if I get a "quickie" before work. She is happy because I can last a lot longer than her big ex husband ever could ,and I am always thinking of what makes her feel wanted and loved.
What kind of body is the best? I would have to say I would enjoy all the best features from the three of them. What kind of woman is the best? One who will love me for myselfself and remain faithful and true for the rest of my life. My chubby sweatheart.
I would still like to learn more ways of having sex with a "chubby" woman.

Well hello I am a female on the plus size and the same here I have a new boyfriend well for a year and he is crazy about me I really never had a problem with my man when it come to sex but for me it would be another thing I love sex and like you said a woman will love you for you I am a plus size chick and very flexible and willing to do everything a skinny girl can and more so just have fun oh yeah also if she loose then have sex but also play with her anal I know that work for females before I am one of the luck ones I can have sex and feel like a vagina in a minute but anyways have fun and enjoy.

Punctuation please!

In the last line you say you "feel like a vagina". How does that feel?