Get a divorce! Otherwise disucss an open relationship with him so you can get the affection you need!
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I am 4'10 and weigh 210, I am very athletic and can ride my boyfriend for hours without losing my breath or getting tired. so the statement big girls aren't athletic enough is false sir.
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I JUST WANT TO SAY; THAT THANKS TO YOUR COMMENTS I FEEL LITTLE BIT MORE CONFIDENT WITH MYSELF. THE REASON WHY I'M SAYING IS BECAUSE, I'M 5'4 AND 235 POUNDS AND I AM ALWAYS FEEL SCARED ABOUT HAVING SEX, EMBARRECED IN FRONT OF MY PARTNER, I BEEN SO, DEPRESS THAT I TRIED TO KILL MYSELF. I SEE THAT IS NOTHING BAD HAVING SEX WHICH IS SO GOOD WHEN U ENJOY WITHOUT BEING SO, CONCIENSE ABOUT IT.
THANK YOU :-)
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you need to leave him and find you a younger guy who knows how to take care of his lady. sex isn't everything but that is just to much.
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I've had sex with my husband both when I was slender, and at my current size. I'm 28, and when we met at 18 I was about 110 pounds. Even though I'm 5'3" that's still rather tiny. Gained a bit of weight in college, but I really packed on the pounds with pregnancy. We have two daughters, and I also became a stay-at-home mother which made me gain weight as well, so now I'm about 290, but I haven't checked in a few months. When I was skinny, penetration was easier, and we could go longer without really getting tired. He enjoyed the positions more, but I wasnt very well-endowed at that time, so there really wasn't anything for him to grab on to. Most of my weight went to my rear, thighs, belly, and some to my chest. Went from a size 2 to a 26/28 so that part of my body is much more enjoyable for him. As for the positions, it is more difficult to get deeper penetration at this weight, so we make accommodations by placing pillows under my back and butt. I think someone mentioned that earlier, actually. My belly does get in the way somewhat now but it's not too big of a problem. He loves it when I ride him, but we can only do it for short periods at a time. He's toned, but still quite skinny, so it's tough for him to support almost twice his body weight on top of him for very long. In my opinion, just talk to them and see what they think is best. The reality is, if you ride them for a short time, you won't really experience any problems. But quite honestly if I did ride him for a extended amount of time, I probably could hurt him. Just don't be stupid, communicate with your partner, and you'll be fine.
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I had quite few ladies in my life, each feel different but all good, these days I have a sexual relation with a larger woman (BBW), and I must admit, at 49 I have never had a better sex. I love her sexiness, roundness, gentleness and her big everything.
I love that she loves it anytime anywhere and I go for it. We have no problem with any position and we work it out well.
Sex life the limit and I wish I met someone like her long time ago.
I read some of the posts here, and my comments are:
1) size no meter, yours or hers.
2) Ask and learn what you love about sex and have the will to give it as well as receive it.
3) You got to love what you have, the neighbors grass look greener then it really is.
4) chubby girls are yam and I can't get enough "Fat bottom girls you make the world go round" Freddie Mercury
I love that she loves it anytime anywhere and I go for it. We have no problem with any position and we work it out well.
Sex life the limit and I wish I met someone like her long time ago.
I read some of the posts here, and my comments are:
1) size no meter, yours or hers.
2) Ask and learn what you love about sex and have the will to give it as well as receive it.
3) You got to love what you have, the neighbors grass look greener then it really is.
4) chubby girls are yam and I can't get enough "Fat bottom girls you make the world go round" Freddie Mercury
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I have spent the last 2hrs reading through all the post and I must say it is insightful.. I am 37yrs old 5'7 and 275lbs... I have really large thighs and butt that is round and protrudes out... I have a small waist and large DD breast.. I am muscular and people don't believe
my weight. My boyfriend of 2yrs whom i love very much is 11yrs older 6'1 180lbs with an 9 inch uncircumcised penis yet he has low testosterone and chronic back pain.. we have sex maybe once a month and we use 2 positions... I am very sexual and would enjoy sex daily... I have cheated on him several times with a booty call who full fills my every sexual fantasy and is the most amazing guy in bed... I feel guilt for cheating because I am madly in love with my boyfriend and would marry him if he ask but I don't want .to live the rest of my life sexually unsatisfied... I have confronted him and not much has changed... I am working hard to lose weight because I know sex with a larger person is harder and more work.. is there any suggestions to improve our sex life
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i think it not the main thing if the girl or thin i think its how she love what she do and feel happyand can make her boy friend feel her
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You should work on your self then! Don't try and tell ppl not to have sex because of there size.
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Thankyou Guest is it?. C'mon!!... Honestly!! who feels comfortable skin to skin friction, sweating non stop! and finding it awkward all round in all positions! Not to mention health concerns! Its not healthy to be that size regardless! You do not want your heart failing because of too much blood trying to pump through when your having intercourse! How horrible! Plus people feel awful in themselves being that size! And yes, I am focusing on myself! Thankyou. Lost afew kilos over the weekend from hiking :).
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I'm a 5'1" and 180-190 lb. female with a 165 lb and 5'8" boyfriend. We enjoy sex very much and have it every other day. Obviously since I'm the larger one in the relationship he originally thought he' be in for having to do all the work BUT-there is something he and some men need to know. If you get a large lady turned on and excited enough she WILL ride you untill you come. I might be big but I have a lot of energy for whatever reason. We've spent many nights behind a certain lighthouse at our favorite beach just going it for hours. I put a folded blanket under each knee (there's cement on the pier behind the lighthouse) and I wear a corset to keep my belly out of the way. My boyfriend loves grabbing my breasts and watching my butt bounce when I'm in reverse cowgirl position. Ehhhhhh-but to keep to the point I was trying to make~not ALL big women get tired quickly-some of us are freaking bottle rockets ready to explode. P.S. The longest I've ridden was for an hour and a half ;)
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Why did you marry him? In my opinion, sex (and children) are the primary reason for marriage. If it wasn't, then why would adultery be such a big deal?
I'd say that if he really doesn't care about your sex-life, then you should ask him to let you be free to find a lover. You can stay married, but you do need a real man in your life, for christsake.
I'd say that if he really doesn't care about your sex-life, then you should ask him to let you be free to find a lover. You can stay married, but you do need a real man in your life, for christsake.
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If you cant have sex with her then you need to leave her because maybe just maybe your penis is not good as she thought either. While you over there cheating I am sure she can also cheat as well. Men are worried about being satisfied but women stay silent. You probably not pleasing her either.
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You should get a divorce. That seems pretty obvious. It wouldn't even be hard. Marriages can be annulled if they are unconsummated. I don't know if there's a statute of limitations on that, but if you both admit to not having had sex together then you should be able to annul the wedding pretty easily. Then you can make a life for yourself that isn't horribly depressing to read about. But seriously. At first glance, this doesn't exactly seem like a relationship worth maintaining.
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