im 18 nearly 19 and already have a 17month old daughter , who i would never regret shes the best thing that ever happended to me. ive been on the injection but missed my last one as i wasnt with her dad anymore . but then we got back together , and i havent had my period i thought it could just be from depo but took a test and it came back positive , im going to family planning but its hard being a young mum i couldnt imagine myself with two kids just yet and quite frankly th reminders of labour frightens me , everybody i know dosent beleive in abortion and dont think i should have one if i am . im confused as my partner is completley against it and dosent want another kid. . but from this everyone is saying abortion can be very painful is it similar to labour pains ? just is a bit weird as we took all precautions.. geuss it just wants to be in this world...? i could never imagine aborting my daughter my mum tryed forcing me to have one when i was pregnant but was to late .
, and now thinking should i abort this one , but could never imagine my world without my daughter and maybe id be happy with ths one to ? watching thm grow into a beautiful being ? sitting up , crawling , first steps , raising something you created ?
but you could end its life so easily and i think id regret it in the end .
i know it would be hard with two kids , stress , mental health state and physically and emotionally.
but im seriously thinking abortion?
does anyone have any advice ?
, and now thinking should i abort this one , but could never imagine my world without my daughter and maybe id be happy with ths one to ? watching thm grow into a beautiful being ? sitting up , crawling , first steps , raising something you created ?
but you could end its life so easily and i think id regret it in the end .
i know it would be hard with two kids , stress , mental health state and physically and emotionally.
but im seriously thinking abortion?
does anyone have any advice ?
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Would you consider placing the baby up for adoption? It may be an option for you and your boyfriend.
Good luck.
Good luck.
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Please, please, please consider adoption....I beg you! There is lots of help and support for you and your unborn child...
We are currently on the other side of your dilemma. My husband and I have been married a long time and have been trying to start our family for over five years. Unfortunately, my body keeps failing us. Each time we finally see a positive pregnancy test, I start bleeding a few weeks later, I miscarry and our world comes crashing down. I think this video sums it up best:
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We don't care if the baby is genetically ours, but instead believe that there is a soul out there in the universe who was always destined to be with us and will eventually find us. We can't wait for the day when we get to look into the eyes, hold in our arms and feel the love in our hearts the newborn who was meant to take us from being a "couple" to a "family."
This must be a very scary and comfusing time for you and I can't think of a more courageous and generous thing you could give to your unborn child than the chance for a wonderful life filled with love and opportunity.
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We are currently on the other side of your dilemma. My husband and I have been married a long time and have been trying to start our family for over five years. Unfortunately, my body keeps failing us. Each time we finally see a positive pregnancy test, I start bleeding a few weeks later, I miscarry and our world comes crashing down. I think this video sums it up best:
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We don't care if the baby is genetically ours, but instead believe that there is a soul out there in the universe who was always destined to be with us and will eventually find us. We can't wait for the day when we get to look into the eyes, hold in our arms and feel the love in our hearts the newborn who was meant to take us from being a "couple" to a "family."
This must be a very scary and comfusing time for you and I can't think of a more courageous and generous thing you could give to your unborn child than the chance for a wonderful life filled with love and opportunity.
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Best of luck!
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