im 14 and 2 months after my birthday, my boyfriend raped me. I have already broken up with him and cut off all of my connections with him. But my parents dont know. should I tell them?
I suggest u tell ur parents or go to the police so they can help u
That's why these kinds of relationships can be dangerous. You're getting involved with people who, for all you know, are not interested in your emotions.
It's really up to you, but I suggest trying to figure out relationships with girls. I know it might be hard, but it's possible, you just need to try. Just don't start having relationships with girls hoping to have sex.. that's a very bad start, and it's completely off topic anyway.
To actually answer your question though, tell your parents. Even if your parents don't know that you're gay, it's still important. For all you know, you have STDs now, and that needs to be tested ASAP. Whether they get the police involved is up to them. If you think your parents won't understand or will be angry at you, just know that it's not likely that it will be the case, and even if they do, they'll only be angry for a little bit before they would want to talk to you about it and possibly try to help you out. It's extremely important that you tell your parents.
I can honestly say that if I was one of your parents, I would want to know about this. I wouldn't want to know about your sex life, but it's the fact that someone raped you that makes this incident stand out. Please tell them - they're your parents, and if they care about you at all, I guarantee you they would want to know. It's the right thing to do, and you're probably going to benefit more from telling them than holding it back.