hi,

i am writing because i'm worried for my gf. you see, about last week she had bled but of a small amount and it stopped. we got worried so we decided to wait for what happens in the following days. she told me how she'd been getting light cramps which gradually evolved to heavier cramps (you know the ones that hurt, i guess?). yesterday, she has bled again, but like last time it had stopped and only a little came out.

we were doing some sexual activity but i didn't get my penis inside her. the most contact with her vagina was when i poked it while she was wearing underwear.

so please can anyone give me some insights on this? my mom says it's normal for irregularities to happen but i'm not sure it is an irregularity... please someone reply asap