roro54,
Yes, you could become pregnant from any contact with sperm.
However, you're asking if he didn't jerk off for a month, if there was likely sperm in his "pre-cum".
How do you know it was pre-cum and not an ejaculation? Sometimes, when guys have not climaxed for a while, the internal contractions of mixing the semen (completely involuntary) will cause a bit of the amassed sperm and semen to be oozed out. Not exactly an ejaculation, but still an emission.
It's for this reason and others, that we urge people to use condoms and protection every time.
What you really want to know is if you are pregnant, and that can best be determined through a test...either Home Preg Test or EPT or a doctors office.
I don't know what your symptoms are, but it certainly sounds like you two were having close enough relations with moist fingers and seminal fluid that you COULD be pregnant. Go get a test and know for sure.
Some people claim that there is NO sperm in pre-cum. Others insist that it only takes one cell to impregnant. Also, though he says he didn't jack off for a month, very few guys can go 14 days without a climax or ejaculation without nature taking it's course and having a Wet dream. Now, if he's normal, he still has had them, but if it's been a day or two since an ejaculation or an emission, the chances of a sperm surviving in his ureathra for more for a few hours, is not as great. But who cares where the sperm came from, it only takes one.
wow..im really scared now..thanks for the truth though
Didn't mean to scare you. Just wanted to answer you completely, and stress the need for protection to be used EVERY TIME.
This is why.
Also, when you sent me a private message, I had not seen your several questions posted, and so, wanted to give you an immediate answer that covered all the bases of your several postings (that had been unanswered.)
You don't mention your age.
You might benefit from a good chat with a nurse at your local Planned Parenthood office, or certainly a nurse at the doctor's office.
If you're going to engage in this type of adult behavior, you need all the facts, and need to be able to protect yourself right from the start.
Make an appointment.
Good luck.