You shouldn't be embarrassed by what your attributes are. They're yours, and somebody is going to love them.
Roast beef is one name for them, meat curtains is another. I never looked at those names as an insult, just a description, like calling a vagina a penis trap or a man hole. To me and my high school buddies a Kotex pad was a man hole cover. When I worked as a suds buster in a diner we called steel wool pads armored Kotex or armored man hole covers. I think most names like that were thought up for comical value, not as an insult.
Although calling a guy, needle dink, IS an insult no matter how funny it sounds. Well, until you get to be my age (69). Now we joke about tieing a string on it so we can find it when we have to pee. "I pulled out a hair and pissed in my pants." When your buddy heads for the head -- "want to borrow my magnifying glass?"
If he said it to make you feel bad, that's HIS problem. Don't make it yours.
Whenever a girl was willing to share her body with me I certainly didn't insult her.
I like long labia. They're fun to nibble on and suck and pull, and the girls I've known, liked that too.
One girl I knew who had really long inner labia, also had tiny boobs. She used to joke that God took it from her top and put it between her legs. I never complained. I loved her tiny boobs and her long labia.
So I say, enjoy what you have, don't be ashamed of it.
Roast beef is one name for them, meat curtains is another. I never looked at those names as an insult, just a description, like calling a vagina a penis trap or a man hole. To me and my high school buddies a Kotex pad was a man hole cover. When I worked as a suds buster in a diner we called steel wool pads armored Kotex or armored man hole covers. I think most names like that were thought up for comical value, not as an insult.
Although calling a guy, needle dink, IS an insult no matter how funny it sounds. Well, until you get to be my age (69). Now we joke about tieing a string on it so we can find it when we have to pee. "I pulled out a hair and pissed in my pants." When your buddy heads for the head -- "want to borrow my magnifying glass?"
If he said it to make you feel bad, that's HIS problem. Don't make it yours.
Whenever a girl was willing to share her body with me I certainly didn't insult her.
I like long labia. They're fun to nibble on and suck and pull, and the girls I've known, liked that too.
One girl I knew who had really long inner labia, also had tiny boobs. She used to joke that God took it from her top and put it between her legs. I never complained. I loved her tiny boobs and her long labia.
So I say, enjoy what you have, don't be ashamed of it.
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i am 13 years old and i dont know what to do it is really uncomfortable to talk to my parents about it and i am really scarred what should i do
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this has relieved me SO MUCH!!! i am 15 i have it too and my fiancee says that he really likes them and they turn him on, but he also said he likes it because they are different. that scared me a lot! now i know it is more common than i thought and i feel so much better... i was mainly scared because he was never with anyone else but was addicted to porn and i was worried about him compairing me, but he didnt and wont i know that, and now i know it is normal anyway!!!
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omg, im only 14. but i seriously thought like it was just meee, ive never said anythign to anyone about it cos i dont know how it happened or what i did wrong. i havent done anything but im just scaredd for when i doo, it pullss sometimes and is reallyy comfortablee.. =/ just wishh it was just normal, life would be soo muchh easierr.
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I'm a 32 year old male. I grew up in a middle class home and have a professional job with the Canadian Government. (I just wanted to state that I'm not a deviant) I have had several girlfriends that had the same situation of one lip slightly longer than the other. Its totally normal!! Its also very sexy. Pay no attention to insults you may fear of receiving. I have never had a conversation with any other male where they had complained about it. If you have the unfortunate experience of your partner insulting you in regards to your sexual anatomy, then there is a good chance you are with the wrong partner. Please don't spend any time worrying about it.
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I'm only 13, and i thought i was the only one with that problem 8-| but thats great i thought it was some kind of cancer, espicieclly when u have this huge thing on it that kinda looks like a birth mark but isnt, but thatnks soo much :-D
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This is totally normal, like everyone else says... if you are worried, it will be worth a trip to your doctor to have it looked at. Your doctor will reassure you. For the person who has probelms wearing jeans because of pinching or whatever... try wearing a pantyliner and make sure your panties are the proper width to cradle everything in there :-) Good Luck!
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If we looked all the same life would be boring. Personally I like them long so you can see them way more attractive I think am yes I am a male. I just wish I could figure out a way to tell which girl had them like this so I could marry her ! :-D
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Hey I'm 14 years old and have the same problem. I've never had sex or anything but on the left side of my vagina the flap is purple-ish and is 1 inch not streched and 2 inches when you berly pull on it. Also there are blood vains in it and pubic hair grows on it. But I've loked into it and everything says it's not normal!!! So dose anyone know how to fix it? If you could do it yourself quickly that would be amazing!!!
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Uhmm, welll im 14 i have had sex, and i have the same problem. mines swollen one lip is larger and its extremely sore. i cant tell my parents, or go too the doctors, im not shure what too do. im imperfect enough as it is. and it knocks me sick when i look at myself in the mirror, ive always had self confidence issues. i just really want this fixed with something natural, no pills or surgery. help?! x
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Is this discussion for real? I guess some women are as self conscious about their vagina as men are about their penis. Makes sense in a way. However, to all the girls/women who posted here about their vaginas being stretched out or uneven or too large: You are perfectly fine the way you are. You don't need surgery or any other alteration done. If you are with a guy and he makes fun of your vagina or says it looks weird, just break up with that person and find a real man.
I for myself like larger labia minora and think it's really sexy when they stick out. Also very pleasurable for oral sex but that's just me. Don't worry about it, you are all unique.
I for myself like larger labia minora and think it's really sexy when they stick out. Also very pleasurable for oral sex but that's just me. Don't worry about it, you are all unique.
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Thank god im not the only one! I have never said anything to anyone becasue I ave been afraid of what they would say! Although one isnt longer then the other in my case, they are both they same size, but still stick out and i hate it! I dont have a boyfriend at the moment but am worried of what they will think when they go down there and something is already sticking out!
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ahh.. i've been worried for a while now!, i want to be normall i dont want horrible names said to me. i'm only 13. like the girl above. i'm scared about doing anything sexual with boys becausee of my vagina. PLEASE. if there's anything you can do pleasee! :$
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I have the same problem and I am very happy that I have now read that it is normal. But does every girl have them? And can masterbation make them bigger? Can they get bigger? I don't want them to..
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