Last night I had sex for the first time in 2 years with a friend who is extremely endowed. The whole ordeal was painful from the initial penetration. In the midst of having sex, I had the sudden urge to urinate. It was such a strong urge that I thought I wouldn't be able to get him out in time. That is one thing that is bothering me.
Another is, after I urinated, I noticed I was bleeding extremely heavy. And I am still bleeding today. It was so heavy last night that I had to wear a "regular" tampon and now today I am still bleeding some but am using a "lite" tampon. The bleeding last night resembled the type of bleeding caused by an injury, and today it resembles the type of bleeding that occurs during menstruation, and by this I mean the clotting. I know the bleeding is not caused from my period because my last period ended on the 8th (2 days ago).
Could someone please give me some answers as to why these things happened and is it normal? Also what could we do to make these things not happen again and make it more pleasant for me?
Another is, after I urinated, I noticed I was bleeding extremely heavy. And I am still bleeding today. It was so heavy last night that I had to wear a "regular" tampon and now today I am still bleeding some but am using a "lite" tampon. The bleeding last night resembled the type of bleeding caused by an injury, and today it resembles the type of bleeding that occurs during menstruation, and by this I mean the clotting. I know the bleeding is not caused from my period because my last period ended on the 8th (2 days ago).
Could someone please give me some answers as to why these things happened and is it normal? Also what could we do to make these things not happen again and make it more pleasant for me?