I am 15 and having a baby with a 18 year old and I am scared to tell my parents I dont know what to do I never planned this but it just happened I havent went to the doctor but I am more than 3 months already and I do not want to do abortion but neither am I sure I want to have it
Please help I need advice
hi there
Pregnancy at your age can be a little risky - not to mention you will requre expert help while delivering your baby. I appreciate that you want the baby? If you did not plan it, but discovered it, you should have informed your parents - however do not geel guilty. Now that you are three months pregnant, let me acquaint you with some hints and solutions.
Do inform your parents, it is never too late [Depending on which background you come from, your parents will be surprised with this news - they may get angry - so be prepared for that]. Get medical help, depending on which country you belong, there ARE options available - right from conunselling and adoption facilities [should you consider to deliver your baby]. Take a firm decision whether to abort or give birth to your baby. Inform your doctor and your parents accordingly.Good luck
OK dear, from one teen to another, I would say that you should tell your parents, but if you're sure that they won't react well, I would advise telling an adult you trust or another family member who you know will help you. Now, since you said you don't want an abortion, I would also advise you seek out your local Crisis Pregnancy Center online. They'll help you come to a conclusion about all of this. Another thing, maybe you should consider giving your baby up for adoption. Many say that adoption is awful, but that truly isn't the case. That's all and if you need anything else, feel free to ask :)
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