ten year old son still sleep with his mother

Guest over a year ago

I think you are bordering on giving him an edipus Rex complex and should be careful about the way you sexualise your relationship with your son

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Guest over a year ago

Dude you were basically doing foreplay as a kid. If that was my daughter and I caught you touching her vaginas I'd probably break your hands! Your parents really did a horrible job in monitoring the kids behavior. It's insestuous of your mother to be washing your wanker by age 5. Figure it out yourself! And no 10 year old should know about masturbation. That's sexual abuse.

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Guest over a year ago

Thank you for clearing this up.

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Guest over a year ago

I agree totally. I'm in a lesbian relationship and my gf has an issue with me not wanting to get in my bed when her 10 year old is in it. I don't believe that any child over 5( or 6 if their afraid of the dark ) should sleep with their parents. She doesn't understand my personal boundaries, we have been together over a year so it's not like I've known her boys all their lives and we've been parenting together for that long. For several nights he's been asking to sleep with her while I'm at work over night, the day she made a comment about sleeping naked and he said, but your my mom, I was floored at the lack of boundaries between them. She's also been naked in front of them when they barge in after she gets out the shower. I find the whole thing disturbing but she's fine with it. Her oldest is 13 and her youngest is 10. Am I crazy??

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Guest over a year ago

I remember my mother and older sister washing my privates. I loved it and re Remeber it well.

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Guest over a year ago

Until what age your mother and older sister washed your privates. Should you share details and your feelings about the events.

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mike over a year ago

From my own experience I used to have my physicals with my mother and younger sister present and a female doctor. Around 12 I noticed that I was always nude while my sister was always in her underwear. The doctor would examine me in full view of my mother and sister but would have my sister lying on the table when she inspected her (with the exception of gait, weight, height , bp etc). At that time when I was about 12-13 I started to mature and get sparse pubic hair and my penis had grown. The nurse comment to my mother that I had pubic hair and I was maturing. There I was standing there and everyone looking at my penis and it started to get erect. After the nurse weighed my sister, she gave her a gown to wear as she had started to develop breast and told me I could put my underpants back on until the doctor came in. As soon as the doctor came in she did all the standard examinations of throat, lungs and blood pressure and afterwards told me to remove my underwear so she could examine my testicles and foreskin. So there I was again nude in front of everyone while the doctor continued her exam.This whole time my sister was able to wear a gown. Now I had a testicle that had not descended correctly so the doctor always examined this and discussed it with my mother while my sister sat there watching. When it came time for her exam I was always told to get dressed. Very truly a double standard. I was always under the impression that as a male it was okay for me to be seen nude but not my sister. Even at home, my mother and sister would always come into the bathroom while I was taking a bath but the bathroom was off-limits if my sister was taking a bath.

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Guest over a year ago

This lady is sick

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subscribed mark over a year ago

I know that feeling, there certainly was a double standard. When I was little all my girl cousins participated in "bathing the baby" where my mother made sure they peeled my foreskin to wash under it. When I was a little older and one of my cousins had a girl baby who was about to get bathed I was shown the door. I guess boys aren't worthy of learning to bathe the girl baby. Those exclusions were rather disheartening as I was growing up. Even when I was close to being a teenager it was OK for girls to be present in the bathroom while I was bathing or in the house as a went into and out of the bathroom nude but they always got underwear when the roles were reversed. What mother didn't know was because I only had girls for playmates growing up we saw nothing wrong with being naked together when we were not in front of our mothers. We used to look each other over pretty closely to check out our differences and they loved to watch me pee because I could aim it where I wanted and they couldn't. I spent some time watching them pee and then inspecting closely trying to figure out where it came out. Never did find that. Also their nipples should have had holes for the milk to come out but we were never able to find those either. Then as soon as they began to grow breasts the door slammed shut and they had their own exclusive world where I was not invited.

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Nakednow361556 over a year ago

People jump to assumptions when they they hear about co sleeping.This is a great no no.Many mothers or fathers going through a divorce have a huge strain on finances.So the parent looks for housing they can afford.Sometimes it is a two bedroom or sometimes it is a one bedroom.Some families will have up to five children so there will be co sleeping no matter what.Yes bunk beds help King size beds maybe is the best way.You get what you can afford.Sometimes trying to buy pajamas is expensive so sleeping in underwear is a option and sometimes nude sleeping is best.

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Guest over a year ago

It seems the reason for the existence of the double standard is that young males and young females look differently in a situation where nudity is present and sexual organs are exposed on display. It turns out that young girls are approaching such a situation more educational and mature than young boys who emphasize the erotic and sexual aspect of the situation.

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subscribed mark over a year ago

At 5 years old? I feel the hiding of the girls from the boys creates that desire to find out what's there.

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Guest over a year ago

any woman that lets her son sleep with her past four or five is weird!!!

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freshman noise over a year ago

Nothing weird at all about it, as zulma said if a child wants to do it then OK but if they are being forced to that different.

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Guest over a year ago

I do agree with the Dr. , there are many people that do sleep in the same room bed, in different cultures, but ok everyone is different, I guess it would depend on the person, when the child does grow up , I am sure they will know how to be independent, sleeping with another adult wouldnt mean anything, teaching the child what is right and wrong means the world, and how to become a wonderful person in society, if the parents are good, I am almost positive the child will follow by example, unless there are other underlined issues but thats an entire different story.

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