I've be experiencing the same problems for the last week now. The redness, stinging/burning, hell in the inner parts of my vagina all the way to my anus and it kills. I did have sex that lasted a little longer than anticipated and to be honest by the end I had had more than enough and just wanted it to end. With it being winter and the air being dry I'm praying to God it is just chafing. I have appointment with my Gyno on Monday but I need a fast fix to get at least get comfortable. Does Desitin work or I have extra virgin coconut oil. I just need help!!!