Hello, so my problem has been on my mind for the past day, me and my girlfriend were fooling around last night and there wasnt any penetration using my penis, just my fingers and mouth, my problem is, that I had came on my left hand and we just sat there for awhile, about 2-3 mins just reflecting, then I got a call which lasted 1 min and after that call we decided to keep going and I preformed oral on her, I remember using only my right hand to penetrate, and clearly remembering that I used my left to massage her breasts and massage her clitoris. I don't clearly remember if I had wiped off all the come off my hand to my leg, but I know that I had, my question is that with knowing that, should I be worried about her becoming pregnant? I've been going through and through that night, dry come, saliva on her vagina from the oral would've killed the sperm but I don't really know. Most of you might be telling yourself this guy is freaking out about nothing, but I just want her to be fine, I want to know whether getting an emergency contraceptive should be top priority due to my problem, someone please help.
I have read that sperm do not live nearly as long outside the body than in. I would imagine that if you only touched her clitoris and nothing else you should definitely be okay.
kkwin thanks for the reply, I just want to know, since I wiped off my left hand, that if the sperm dies, I have been losing all sorts of sleep and excitement of my day with this problem, shes due for her period this week, I'm trying to not have her worry, she seems like shes in high spirits, If I had her strength, I would be a lot better but I'm a worrier and she is the love of my life, kids would be great, but maybe in 10-15 years. Any other feedback would be greatly appreciated.
Ok we talked some more and she gave me her days of ovulation and all the dates, and her last period started on the 16th of may, which means her last available day of ovulation was the 3rd of June, so with precautions, wiping, dry, other hand, am I worrying about nothing?